#teakink with Dominatrix Eva Oh

Venus is the organiser of Sex and Rage, a martial artist, fetish wrestler and soon to be stunt performer. In this conversation between Venus and Eva Oh we learn about Venus’ progression from stripping into fetish wrestling, the origins of Sex and Rage, Venus’ Lesbian and Bisexual Strip Club, the various personas that she embodies; and the importance of power, presence and play.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - Meet Venus, Event Organiser, Sex Worker and Martial Artist(00:48) - Sex and Rage, The Lesbian and Bisexual Strip Club(07:35) - Stripping and Fetish Wrestling(12:05) - Wrestling and Domination(13:10) - Lesbian Wrestling(14:30) - Venus vs The Wrestler Persona, Sativa(15:50) - Venus’ Self Defence Workshops(23:30) - Parallels between Martial Arts and Sex Worker Communities(27:25) - Martial Artists and Sensitivity(31:30) - Being Present, Fighting and F**king(33:25) - The Venus Persona(36:10) - The Future of Venus: Sex and Rage, Fighting, Stunts(38:20) - How Does it Feel to Get Hit?(42:25) - Venus’ Personal Perversions(44:45) - Power and Play

Eva Oh launches her own loose leaf teas! A Jasmine Silver Tip and an Aged Port Oolong. Watch her pour herself a tea ceremony as she takes us through the history of how and why #teakink began. A tale of Domme friends, secrets, censorship and platforming the margins.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - Teas by Eva Oh(01:40) - Jasmine Silver Tip Loose Leaf Tea(02:12) - The History of #teakink, Domme Friends and Censorship(06:50) - Why Tea?(09:00) - What next?(10:55) - Aged Port Oolong Loose Leaf Tea(12:55) - My Naivety, Censorship and Platforming the Margins(16:15) - Thank you for your response to the Podcast

Watch one of Eva Oh’s mentoring sessions live on the #teakink Podcast. Miss Juni is an aspiring Dominatrix who booked a mentoring call with Eva Oh but ended up on her sofa with her questions instead. From red flags, to client application processes, socialising with clients, and setting rates; Eva and Juni cover a lot of ground. We also get an insight into Juni’s motivations, her use of OnlyFans as a space for trans activism and her thoughts on sissification from a trans perspective.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - A Mentoring Session with Miss Juni, Aspiring Dominatrix(01:23) - Why Become a Dominatrix?(02:40) - Domination and Acceptance(05:19) - Sissification from a Trans Perspective(08:12) - Qtee Foxx, OnlyFans and Trans Activism(12:35) - Offensive Clients(18:00) - Red Flags in Professional Domination(25:00) - My Client Application Process(27:00) - Dominating the Every Day(31:00) - My Awkward Moment Trying Professional Submission(33:30) - How Do You Keep a Client Conversation Going?(35:00) - Bowling, Karaoke, and My Humiliation(38:00) - How Do You Create Long Term Clients?(42:00) - Sugar Babying, the Saviour Complex and Quitting the Industry(47:00) - Consent is Cool(48:50) - How Do You Ask for More? How Do We Handle Our Sense of Value?(01:00:50) - Work-Life Balance as a Dominatrix(01:04:00) - The Eva Oh Experience(01:06:50) - How Much Do You Give Before a Session?

Jake Dean sits down with Eva Oh to chat week-long escort bookings, contentment, client demographics, the concept of ‘high end’ and the whorearchy; and so so much more. Eva shares her tips for managing long term client engagements, decompression and a family heirloom that grounds her as a part of the process.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - Meet Jake Dean, Who Starts out by Charming Me(02:33) - Jake, Escort and Escort Agency Owner(03:50) - Why Escorting: Playboy, Business Studies and Amsterdam(06:30) - Jake’s First Booking(07:30) - Customer Relationship Management in the Sex Industry(08:10) - How Escorting has Changed (For) Jake(11:50) - Friendship and Isolation(15:30) - Finding Contentment in Escorting(20:25) - Week-long Bookings with a Client?!(25:50) - How I Stay in Character-ish(27:50) - How I Decompress from a Long Booking: Habit, Practice and Boundaries(31:00) - Does Our Rates Effect Client Demographic and Behaviour?(34:00) - People Skills(35:15) - A Long Term Job(36:15) - Unpredictable and Questioning, Improving Self(38:55) - ‘High End’ and the Whorearchy?(41:35) - How Jake Runs His Escort Agency(48:45) - Escort Touring Quirks and Good Habits

‘Miss Mummy’ specialises in regression sessions for Adult Babies out of her specially built adult sized Nursery. Eva Oh joins Miss Mummy in the crib to discuss the motivations, vulnerability and stigma behind her practice; her Adult Baby counselling service; and the potential parallels between her work and that of a professional Dominatrix.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - Meet ‘Miss Mummy’ in Her Adult Baby Crib(01:40) - Adult Babies and Regression(04:00) - My First Adult Baby Session and the Stigma I Felt(05:30) - How Miss Mummy Discovered Adult Babies(09:05) - How Miss Mummy Navigates Her Adult Babies’ Vulnerability(15:55) - Highly Sensitive People(17:25) - The Adult Baby Counselling Service(19:40) - Shame and Guilt(22:00) - Adult Baby Communities and Gatherings(23:27) - Dominatrix vs Mummy?(25:00) - Sex Work and Absurdity(27:30) - What an Adult Baby Experience Looks Like(30:20) - Freedom, Peace and Social Conditioning(34:00) - How Miss Mummy Integrates the Experience for a Client(38:00) - Miss Mummy’s Future(40:30) - What is the Demographic of an Adult Baby(40:50) - The Post-War History of Adult Babies(47:50) - Holding Men

#teakink Podcast started out as a seasonal experiment in sharing an often sidelined perspective - that of a sex worker. And Oh, has our host Eva Oh shared. Stories and secrets of the sweet, the challenging and the titillating. But it’s time to share the platform and so from here, this is no longer an experiment. The #teakink Podcast has found its format - to share valuable and underrepresented perspectives from around the world. Eva Oh sits down with international sex workers, sex industry professionals, those adjacent and who champion them; with some solo episodes from our host when the mood strikes. Welcome to the #teakink Podcast, now here to stay.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - No More Seasons(02:30) - Interviews as a Focus

This episode wraps the special 'Interview' Season of the #teakink Podcast. It's been quite the ride, with deeply insightful and generous guests that included heavy masochists, sex work academics, a submissive called 'Floor' and many more. Will Eva Oh continue? Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Masochism, Survival, Gratitude for People's Sharing (03:40) - Reflections on Reading My Memoir (04:20) - A Rewarding "Hobby", Thank You for Listening

Eva Oh invites 'M', a fan of #teakink - onto the Podcast. Eva's been curious about why you have been interested in the podcast as much as you have, and even though it turns out to be a little bit of an awkward episode hearing about herself - M's kindness and eloquence reveals a lot about the impact that #teakink has been able to have, what insights are possible through it and it lays a lot of groundwork on what more #teakink could become in time to come. Thanks 'M'! Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Eva Oh Invites M, a Listener of #teakink - onto #teakink (01:30) - How M Found Me (02:20) - Getting Feedback on How I Communicate (04:20) - How has #teakink Impacted M? (06:20) - Questioning Priorities and Values (09:24) - Learning About Dominatrices (11:25) - M's Favourite Episode (14:50) - Parasocial Relationships and Podcast Hosts (16:10) - Why I Did This Episode (16:40) - I Want to be a Resource (20:25) - Making Sex Workers Visible (28:10) - M Introduces Herself - Research, Japan, Investment Banking (37:15) - Writing Women's Stories (39:50) - M's Experience with Kink and Hentai (46:45) - Different Times for Monogomy and Non-Monogamy (47:30) - What is Shareable About #teakink?

When Eva Oh posted a question on AI and sex work to Instagram a wave of opinions came back, but a referenced musing via Google Docs from Goddess Faye clearly stood out - and now we have quite the episode of the #teakink Podcast on Bizarre Ladies, the potential viscerality of the digital, emotional design in session, nerdiness and BDSM, TeamLabs, Cyborg Dominatrix Dreams, brain tissue, VR Porn, Web3, Digital Harems and more! Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Meet Goddess Faye aka Sensory Girl (01:20) - From Tumblr to Dominatrix and Pro Deviant (02:45) - Bizarre Ladies (03:18) - Sitting on Wet and Messy Things (04:55) - The Visceral Meets The Digital (09:27) - Emotional Design in Session (11:12) - Nerdiness and BDSM (12:10) - Technology in Session (15:00) - My Ultimate Fantasy and TeamLab (17:45) - Our Cyborg Dominatrix Dreams (20:20) - Brain Tissue, AI and Sentience (22:50) - VR Porn Needs to Evolve (23:35) - Next Innovations in the Sex Industry? (25:20) - Web3 Concerns (28:00) - Truthfulness (30:30) - The Unknown of AI (32:00) - Curator of Your Mind (33:40) - How Will AI Change BDSM and the Dominatrix (34:30) - The Digital Harem (35:25) - Consent, Chatbots and Submissive Control (36:50) - AI as a Good Submissive (39:15) - The Dehumanisation of Sex Workers (42:30) - Skin in the Game

Prolific Kink Photographer Miss Gold invites Eva Oh into the contents of her mind on this episode of the #teakink Podcast. We discover Miss Gold's start in fine art, her first steps into fetish, the importance of fantasy in her work, her sexuality and parenthood, and she reveals to us the intricacies of photographing sex parties as an insider. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - You Don't Deserve to See Miss Gold's Feet (01:20) - From Fine Art to Fetish Photography (02:30) - Sex Party Photography Highlights: Latex Pig Masks (04:00) - Fantastical Fantasies (06:20) - How Miss Gold Found Kink (08:00) - How to Photograph a Sex Party (10:00) - Editorial Photography Meets BDSM (12:00) - The Issues of Non-Kinksters Documenting Kink (16:30) - The Surge of Sex Parties (19:35) - Sex Influencer Culture (21:40) - Sexuality and Parenthood (26:00) - Being Pregnant at Sex Parties (28:00) - Discussing Sexuality with Our Children (31:50) - The Contents of Miss Gold's Mind (36:00) - Future Plans, Documenting Our Kink History

In this episode of the #teakink Podcast we meet Polly - an escort, academic, and community organiser with SWARM who shares the ins and outs of what a kink escort booking looks like, her thoughts on the state of academia, and her love for grimy leather bars and wild swimming. Eva Oh joins her on a campaign for queer cruising spaces and also shares a story of the time she got Root Beer Float Waterboarded. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Meet Polly - Sex Worker, Academic, Community Organiser (02:15) - Non-Monogamy Circles and Sex Worker Friends (03:12) - Polly's First Steps into Sex Work (05:11) - Thinking About Oneself as a "Brand" (07:35) - Polly's First Booking, the Tiniest Double Ended Dildo (09:40) - What Does a Booking Look Like (13:40) - Finding the Kink Community and Grimy Leather Bars (17:40) - The State of Academia (20:15) - SWARM, Sex Worker Grassroots Organisation (25:50) - The Correlation Between Academia and Sex Work (28:15) - Polly's Ideal Week (32:50) - Wild Swimming (36:35) - Queer Cruising (39:50) - Personal Responsibility in Sex Spaces (41:30) - Kink Group Getaways and Murder Mysterys (44:25) - How to Cruise (47:45) - Root Beer Float Waterboarding

Playful Magazine, Podcast, TV... Amanda and Filip of Playful get into bed with Eva Oh to talk about their vision for Playful, platforming sex workers, discovering the fluidity of their sexualities, Filip in lingerie and a surprising experience that they had with Eva in the Berghain Darkroom. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Meet Amanda and Filip of Playful (02:00) - What is Playful (03:30) - How They Choose Their Guests (04:15) - Platforming Sex Workers (07:30) - The Playful Vision (09:40) - Music and Sex (11:30) - Featuring the Path Less Travelled (14:19) - Exploring The Fluidity of Their Sexualities (17:55) - What Makes a "Relevant" Man (19:25) - Peeing on People Together (20:20) - The Story of Eva in the Darkroom at Bergahin (30:25) - Berghain's Sexual Evolution (35:20) - Getting More Naked (39:20) - More Female Friendly Cruising Spots (41:20) - Playful TV

We take a mid season pause from the #teakink Podcast Interviews to feature a reading from Eva Oh's memoir in progress. A chapter on perfecting the mechanics of golden showers on a client called 'French Frank', and how Eva discovers a sense of joy that she had never experienced before, in her very first session as a Dominatrix. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - A Reading from My Memoir in Progress (01:15) - Chapter 7, Golden Showers

Ezada Sinn graces Eva Oh with her incomparable mind in this episode of the #teakink Podcast. Shot during Ezada's Femdom Summit in Bucharest, the Femdoms chat on the links between communism and women's power, Ezada's ideal relationship structures, raising children as a kinkster and the link between latex body bags and floatation tanks. We also get an insight into the origins of Ezada's personal fetishes and even an early masturbation ritual... Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - The Glorious Ezada Sinn (01:50) - The Femdom Summit, A Vision for Femdom and Bucharest (06:15) - Femdom Sightseeing (08:20) - Romanian History, Communism and Women's Power (11:05) - Discovering Dominance (13:10) - Ezada's Ideal Relationship/s, The Inverted 50s Household (18:10) - Raising a Family with a D/s "Village" (20:30) - Renegotiating Dynamics and Protocol with Life Changes, like Raising Children (23:30) - The Importance of Talking About Kinksters and Sex Worker with Children (27:55) - The Origins of Ezada's Fetishes (30:20) - Ezada's First Masturbation Ritual (32:00) - Latex Body Bags and Floatation Tanks (34:24) - Femdom Friendships (40:00) - Ezada's 'Talking Matriarchy' Podcast

Eva Oh places her feet on the chest of a submissive #teakink Podcast listener for an interview on the submissive mindset. With 'Floor', Eva leads a conversation on how he discovered his submissive identity, his journey from service top to submissive, his early desires to role play as the floor, his craving for connection and how he became a part of Eva's Domme Training Sessions. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:21) - A Submissive Listener Now Under My Feet (02:35) - Is My Persona My Reality? The Sub's Perspective (05:00) - How We Know Each Other (06:39) - Becoming a Part of My Training Sessions (12:20) - What is a Session with a Dominatrix? (13:45) - A Hint at What a Session With Me is Like (16:00) - Discovering the Submissive Identity (17:20) - Finding the Community (19:50) - From Service Top to Submissive (22:15) - Wanting to Role Play as the Floor (24:40) - Thank You Graham Norton (25:20) - A Fetish in Hiding (28:40) - What it's Been Like Looking for a D/s Dynamic (31:40) - Craving Connection (34:45) - 24/7 Power Dynamics (43:00) - The Importance of Communication (45:00) - Finding Satisfaction

Eva Oh sits down with Cherry Velour to talk torture porn, discovering fear, creating consensual non consent scenes, the challenge of sensual pleasure, the torture of the patriarchy, submission as a symptom, shattering the ego - and an impressive number of other points that they manage to squeeze into an hour of the #teakink Podcast. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:21) - Meet Cherry Velour (00:30) - Cherry's Torture Porn (03:20) - What is the Sound of Torture? (06:20) - Can a Desire for Torture Meet Reality (07:50) - Discovering Fear (10:00) - Creating Consensual Non Consent Scenes (12:15) - Why is Fear Interesting (13:40) - Maggots and Cold Bodies of Water (15:38) - The Challenge of Sensual Sexual Pleasure (21:03) - The Desire for a 24/7 Power Dynamic (23:20) - The Torture of the Patriarchy (26:00) - Too Few Perverts in Denmark? (27.50) - The UK, A Country of Bottoms and Subs? (31:00) - Submission as a Symptom (32:55) - A Special Breed of Dominant (35:30) - The Benefits of Being Thoughtful About Kink (39:50) - Shattering the Ego (44:30) - What's next for Cherry Velour?

We kick of the #teakink Interview Season with Eva Oh’s dear friend Missy Fatale, International Burlesque Siren and fellow female dominant. From an intrigue in sex, death and nudity, to coming up against the patriarchy as a child, we discover how Missy moves from the world of fine art into the liberation of performance, the struggle of surrender as a Femdom; and how a mainstream audience responds to fetish on the stage. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com Missy's Links: instagram.com/missy_fatale instagram.com/vintageartsagency vintageartsagency.com instagram.com/haus_of_fatale vintageartsagency.com/hausoffatale HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Who is Missy Fatale? (02:05) - Sex, Death and Nudity (03:30) - Patriarchy as a Child (05:05) - Discovering Dominance (06:50) - From Fine Art to the Liberation of Performance (13:25) - Fetish in Performance Art (14:50) - Social Media's Effect on Performance (16:15) - Vintage Arts Agency, House of Fatale, Fatalism (17:00) - Bringing the Dungeon to the Stage (18:20) - How Audiences Respond (20:20) - Fetish as Life (23:20) - Attempting Surrender as Dominant Women (27:15) - What Female Dominance Means to Us (31:45) - Using Terms as Opposed to them Using Us (33:25) - Marie Kondo-ing Life (34:25) - The State of Fetish in the Performance Industry (38:20) - Eva Oh, Missy's House Dominatrix (39:55) - Missy Fatale's Final Act

Season 5 of the #teakink Podcast is all about the interviews. Eva Oh welcomes sex industry professionals, kink community photographers, masochists, fans and more to her play space sofa for a conversations that offer a deeper look into her world and its inhabitants.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - Let the Interview Season Begin(01:05) - Escorts, Kink Photographers, Masochists and Fans(01:55) - Get a Deeper Look into My World

Sex Work can feel isolating because of society’s shortcomings and even simply within the logistics of the job. A question on how to manage feelings of isolation when on tour or travelling for work as a sex worker leads Eva Oh to reveal an insight into her touring history, and the habits, community and secrets that have kept her grounded - including a travelling totem and room service spaghetti bolognaise…More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on Touring as a Sex Worker(01:10) - My Touring History(02:35) - But I Love Solitude(03:25) - The Benefits of Sex Worker Communitiy(03:55) - Familiarity on the Road(07:15) - Dating App Entertainment(07:50) - Keeping Motivations Front of Mind(09:20) - Totems and Spaghetti Bolognaise(11:10) - Touring in Doubles(12:30) - Much Love!

A somewhat academic question reveals the more visceral leanings of Eva Oh’s view on kink. On this episode of the #teakink Podcast Eva reveals why she tends to avoid pathologising the kinks of those who work with her, the neurology of foot fetishes, the potential meaning of what a ‘desire template’ is and more things that she often sets aside to prioritise getting gloriously filthy.More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question from a Sexologist on the Origin of Fetishes(00:55) - I’m Less Academic, More Pervert(01:45) - Avoiding Pathologising for Experiential Thrills(04:50) - The Neurology of Foot Fetish(05:50) - Examining Me, Eva Oh(10:05) - What Are Desire Templates?(10:50) - I Think We’re More Similar Than Not(12:55) - Maybe I Should See a Sexologist?