Conversations for Fear-less Leaders

Rhonda and Dale

Effective leadership centers itself around influence because leadership isn't just about you, it's about other people and the relationships you build with them. Individual ability on its own isn’t enough to sustain a thriving business. A leader must provide the motivation required to achieve shared goals and mutual success – in the process unlocking levels of greatness that we might never have dreamed to be possible.Your ability to influence relies on your skill at introducing and driving critical conversation. In order to effect the change you seek, your vision has to be effectively shared and translated to your employees, peers, and partners, and so you need to become a master of conversation. That’s why I’ve joined forces with (Dale Laughlin/ Rhonda York) my fellow certified Conversational Intelligence®, Executive, Team and Life Coach, to create our brand-new podcast series, Conversations for FearLESS Leaders.We define a FearLESS leader as one who recognizes the fears that may be holding them back and is able to move beyond them to have the kinds of necessary, intentional conversations that make things happen. In each episode of our podcast we’ll explore the scary situations that can inhibit your ability to perform and use our experience to help you navigate through those fears to the success you deserve.So get comfortable, take a listen, and join the conversation at http://bit.ly/cfl-podcast- because we can do more when we fear less!#leadership #leadershipcoaching #executivecoaching #conversationalintelligence #difficultconversations #conversationsforfearlessleaders #facingfears read less
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EP-09 Opening the Blinds on Your Blind Spots
06-07-2021
EP-09 Opening the Blinds on Your Blind Spots
Problem-solving is one of the keys to great leadership. But how can you solve a problem you don’t even know you have? We all have blind spots, areas where we make assumptions or hold beliefs without pausing to question their rational basis and the ways in which they influence our behaviour. The tricky thing about our blind spots is that because we aren’t aware of them, we usually don’t notice the impact they are having on those around us. All the while, these blind spots are disrupting our conversations, weakening our relationships and diminishing our influence.In the latest episode of Conversations for FearLESS Leaders, we explore the techniques you can use to uncover your blind spots and strategies for addressing them. (If you need an introduction to blind spots and how they can impede your development as a leader, check out the previous episode first!) ‘Opening the blinds’ takes both humility and courage as you commit to seeking honest feedback and taking action to amend limiting behaviors. Ultimately this creates an environment of safety and trust in which you and your people can have healthy conversations that catalyze growth and transformation – even in the most difficult situations.Don’t let your blind spots hold you back! Listen today at Contact us at www.Conversationsforfearlessleaders.com (where you can also sign up to be notified when we release new episodes) – and feel free to comment below about how you may have realized you had a blind spot of your own, or to share a topic you’d like to see us cover in future podcasts.#blindspot #difficultconversations #leadership #leadershipstrategy #leadershipcoaching #executivecoaching #conversationalintelligence #difficultconversations #conversationsforfearlessleaders
EP-10 Triggers that Impact our Conversations
13-07-2021
EP-10 Triggers that Impact our Conversations
|  |  |  |  |   |  |   |  |   |  |  | There's a new episode of the podcast out today! 🎧  EP-10 Triggers that Impact our Conversations  What triggers us? And, how 'response-able' are we when we get triggered? A trigger is a stimulus to which we react. It may originate in the external environment – in the things people say and do, the situations that arise, or the circumstances we find ourselves in. Also, a trigger can arise internally with a limiting belief or a false assumption. What triggers make us do, is to lose control. They get the better of us. In this podcast we explore common triggers – what they are and where they come from. We delve, too, into the neurochemistry that underlies the triggering of fear and the shift to trust. We discuss what leaders can do to ‘catch’ the trigger, in the moment, before it takes control. They can choose, instead of reacting, to become ‘response-able’. To select their words more carefully and their non-verbal more mindfully. As they do, they empower themselves to shift out of their undesirable, fear-triggered behaviors and regain a mindset of trust and calm. Their conversation shifts as well to one that encourages others to open up, to share and to partner. As with all behavior changes, it’s easier said than done. The fact, though, is that it’s possible! We know what our behavioral goals are. We know, too, the triggers that tend to thwart our best efforts. Determine to take control – start with one and build from there. Response-ability is your choice! Don’t let your triggers outsmart you!    Connect with Dale and Rhonda at www.Conversationsforfearlessleaders.com
EP-11 Triggers; Part Two-A Deeper Dive into what sets us off!
20-07-2021
EP-11 Triggers; Part Two-A Deeper Dive into what sets us off!
Join Rhonda and Dale as they probe for a deeper understanding of how Triggers impact us and the daily challenge to navigate them. They draw from personal experience to unpack the troublesome words and phrases that trigger their discomfort both internally, in their inner dialogue and, externally, in their conversations with others. They explore, too, self-awareness and self-regulation as vital tools for disarming the triggers and readying ourselves to navigate through intentional and healthy conversations with others. As FearLESS Leaders, your power lies in this inner awareness and control in the moment as you navigate your triggers with positive intention. All this is easier said than done! Leaders require high levels of  patience, courage and resilience to change habits. There are new behaviours to adopt and some behaviours to do differently – to downregulate or do less; and, upregulate or do more. But we’re not alone on the journey. As Leaders we have a support group or eco-system on whom we can rely as we do the inner work. Why should we bother? In a sense this is our life’s work – to reach and move constantly towards our better selves and in all areas of our lives. This work takes time, patience, realistic expectations, support and resilience. There will be times when we will get stuck and when we will default back to the very behaviours we are trying to change; when we will be disheartened and triggered by our own perceived lack of progress. To reach Rhonda and Dale, Contact us at www.Conversationsforfearlessleaders.com
EP-12 Building High Performing TEAMS
28-07-2021
EP-12 Building High Performing TEAMS
“High-performing, successful organizations build cultures of introspection and trust and never lose sight of their purpose.” – Colin PowellThis week on Conversations For FearLESS Leaders we’re tackling one of those evergreen issues that has come even more sharply into focus since the pandemic began - Building High-Performance Teams. With many organizations compelled to make the shift to remote work, it has become imperative for leaders to understand how to mobilize, motivate and incentivize their teams to continued excellence in the face of unexpected – and in some instances, unprecedented - challenges.In this episode we’re unpacking a number of Big Ideas around team building, including: what makes a team the difference between high performance, high impact and high value  co-creation stakeholders working collectively alignment trust and psychological safety Above all, the first building-block of a high-performance team is the FearLESS Leader’s sense of purpose and intentionality. They must maintain clarity on the team’s overarching goals and objectives and understand their responsibility to be the kind of leader the team needs in order to succeed.  Listen now at www.conversationsforfearlessleaders.com - and subscribe to our notifications to be the first to hear next week’s episode, where we’ll take a more in-depth look at trust and psychological safety!#teams #teambuilding #highperformanceteams #performance #performancecoaching #emotionalintelligence #leadership #leadershipstrategy #leadershipcoaching #executivecoaching #conversationalintelligence #difficultconversations #conversationsforfearlessleaders