My son was in a car accident. Lucky to be alive. One thing about the accident; I knew he had hit a pole.. we just didn't know where he was or how he was. I was over 45 minutes away with no car. My sister was scared to death to go look for him, but she kind of didn't have a choice. This is my experience and my little way of coping with what I went through emotionally. I wrote this mere minutes after we found out he was alive.