Wondering what happens to your superannuation when you get divorced or separated? Is it simply yours to keep, or is it considered part of the property pool to be divided and shared? These are important questions that many people have, and this podcast episode has the answers you need. During a divorce or separation, it's easy to focus on the physical assets like houses, cars, and furniture. Don’t let your superannuation or theirs be overlooked. Fear not, this episode is here to guide you through the basics of the family court process and help educate you  on your property settlement. You might also be thinking about fairness when it comes to your ex's superannuation. Should you leave it untouched? Well, this episode will provide clarity on that too. It explores how superannuation can be divided and shared, taking into consideration factors like individual contributions, the duration of the relationship, and projected financial needs. Remember, it's important to seek legal advice from a qualified lawyer for your specific situation. While this podcast provides general information pertaining to Australian law, it does not replace personalised legal counsel. Don't let your superannuation go forgotten. Tune into this informative episode and gain a better understanding of the divorce process and how it impacts your super. What about Superannuation in your divorce or de facto separation? Don’t miss out on hearing the answers to the following questions Have you ever said "I'm not going to touch your super"? Do you want to know how to keep your super during a divorce? Is superannuation a big argument factor during divorce? Are super and property the two big ticket items in divorce settlements? Do you want to keep your super instead of the house? How is super dealt with in divorce and what should you know? What are the questions you should ask about superannuation during a divorce? What if your ex won’t disclose their superannuation Ways to find out about their superannuation. Don't wait any longer - tune in to this episode to gain valuable insights for navigating your divorce or de facto separation. Useful Resources: Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist  Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course   Episodes Mentioned in this episode  Separated under one roof: the do’s and don’ts in divorce I really really want to keep the house: general legal tips on how to achieve this goal whilst going through property settlement, divorce and de facto separation. Debunking Divorce Myths and Your Essential First Steps   Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732

Do you know your separation date? Do you know why it is important for divorce or de facto separation ? Do you know how to document it? Are you going through a difficult divorce and finding yourselves separated under one roof? Do you feel stuck and unsure of what steps to take next? Look no further! In this podcast episode, Laura and her Mother, a Family Law Specialist provide education and practical tips on navigating the challenges of living with your ex during a divorce and 5 tips and ways to document your separation date.  Learn about the importance of seeking legal advice, documenting the separation, and establishing an independent life whilst still being stuck in the same home. Whether you're contemplating the decision to leave or considering reconciling, this episode delves into the complexities and implications of separating under one roof and separation dates. Don't miss out on valuable insights and guidance - listen to this episode to gain clarity and take the next steps towards your new life. Please always see a lawyer and get independent legal advice before acting on anything. This podcast provides australian general education only and cannot be applied to everyone’s individual situations, so always go see a lawyer. Episode Highlights: Practical tips for living arrangements while separated under one roof Establishing an independent life and documenting the separation Recognizing the implications of separating under one roof in property and child custody cases Separation dates and why they are important Importance of seeking legal counsel in your individual circumstances Don't wait any longer - tune in to this episode to gain valuable insights for navigating your divorce or de facto separation. Beyond the Split: Understanding Separation Dates and Cohabitation with your Ex Don’t miss out on the following questions How do I handle the situation of being separated under one roof? How can I set up an independent life after a breakup while still living under one roof? What are the steps I should take with my lawyer? How can I determine what assets I can afford to keep? What are the financial implications of property division when it comes to separation date? How do I properly document my interactions and communications? What are some sneaky tricks to be aware of during the divorce process? Why is a divorce, separation date or de facto separation date important? What are the top five ways to establish a separation date? How to deal with living under one roof after separation? What are some practical tips for separated under one roof arrangements? Is nesting a solution co parenting with your ex? How can I set up a new independent life after separation if living under one roof still? If you sleep with your ex after separation does that count as getting back together? What happens if you have a brief reunion but then break up again?    Useful Resources: Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist  Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course   Episodes Mentioned in this episode  Separated under one roof: the do’s and don’ts in divorce I really really want to keep the house: general legal tips on how to achieve this goal whilst going through property settlement, divorce and de facto separation. Debunking Divorce Myths and Your Essential First Steps   Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you. Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.

Are you feeling drained and defeated the aftermath of a failed mediation or family dispute resolution? Listen to this episode to gain essential insights to guide you through the challenges that follow a family law mediation gone wrong. Key Takeaways:         Demolishing Arguments: CIA-Level Investigation Discover the importance of scrutinising your ex-partner's arguments post-mediation. Lynette reveals her method of creating a list of objections and systematically demolishing them with solid evidence. Offer Tactics: Leveraging Section 117C Delve into the world of post-mediation offers. Learn about crafting a compelling offer under Section 117C with your lawyer and strategically using it to your advantage. Ratcheting Towards Resolution: A Step-by-Step Approach Learn about the ratchet approach—locking in agreements on smaller issues before progressing, ensuring tangible progress and minimising the risk of endless circling. Children and Property Negotiations: Juggling Two at Once Gain insights into whether it's practical to address children and property matters simultaneously in mediation, considering the nuances of each case. Empower Yourself: Bolster Your Case with Evidence: Lynette emphasises the importance of gathering evidence to support your claims, offering examples of creative ways to prove your position. Stay Resilient Against Narcissistic Tactics: Strategies for dealing with narcissistic ex-partners who thrive on dragging out the process. Decode the Nights' Dilemma: let us shed light on the unspoken cues lawyers often use and offers a candid perspective on what judges may think. Please remember that this podcast offers general education and is not a substitute for legal advice. Always seek independent legal counsel, as each situation is unique. Don’t miss out on hearing the answers to the following questions What if they won't sign anything during mediation? Is it advisable to bring up concerns about the mediation process if it's not working? Can a mediator help narrow down the issues that need to be decided in court? Should children's and property matters be dealt with in the same mediation session? How does a mediator handle cases where both parents want equal time with the children? Is it common for people to focus on children first in mediation, and is it related to financial considerations? How do judges view claims of spending time with children, especially when it's seemingly motivated by financial considerations? Is there a way to address the issue when someone appears to be using children for financial gain in court? How can you prevent a situation where an agreement reached in mediation is later changed by one party? What steps can be taken to stop a change of mind after reaching a settlement in mediation? How can you deal with the emotional aspect of a failed mediation, especially if you feel like you've failed? What should you do if you feel pressured or bullied during mediation? How can you handle an avoidant person in mediation, and what steps can be taken afterward? Is it common for people to feel like a failure after a failed mediation, and how can they overcome that feeling? What is the significance of the 117C reference in the context of mediation? How do you handle a failed mediation with an amicable person? How do you deal with high-conflict personalities in mediation? Is it worth it to give in to certain demands from a high-conflict person to reach an agreement? How does the emotional aspect differ in children's mediation compared to property mediation? Are there specific challenges or considerations in children's mediation that people should be aware of? How do people's mindsets change when it comes to negotiating child custody arrangements in mediation? Is there a change in mindset with the presumption of equal shared care, and how is the law evolving in this regard? What are the potential consequences if a mediation process goes awry? In the aftermath of a failed mediation, how can individuals cope with the investment of time, money, and emotion without achieving a resolution?   What is the process of creating and dismantling a list of arguments following a mediation that didn't succeed? What defines a calderbank offer under Section 117C, and what strategic advantages does it provide? What risks does the opposing party face if they reject an offer made under Section 117C? Following an unsuccessful mediation, what methods can be employed to gather evidence to strengthen one's case? Could you provide an example of successfully obtaining proof to counter an argument raised during mediation? What steps can be taken if the other party refuses to sign the agreement at the conclusion of a seemingly successful negotiation? In what ways can gathered evidence be instrumental in supporting one's case and undermining the claims of the opposing party? How is the ratchet approach applied in mediation, and what role does it play in reaching resolutions? Can you explain the importance of locking in agreements on smaller issues before progressing towards more significant matters in mediation? Is it possible to address children and property matters simultaneously in mediation, and what challenges may arise? What factors typically come into play when negotiating arrangements related to both children and property? How should individuals navigate dealings with narcissistic ex-partners, especially if they initially seemed agreeable but later retract their consent? What are some unspoken cues often utilised by lawyers during discussions on children's nights and custody arrangements? From a judicial perspective, how are discussions about the number of nights a child spends with each parent perceived? How can individuals empower themselves and strengthen their case with evidence in the aftermath of a mediation? What strategies can be employed to maintain resilience in the face of tactics employed by narcissistic ex-partners? How does the distribution of nights a child spends with each parent impact the factors outlined in Section 75 of family law?   Useful Resources: Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist  Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course   Episodes Mentioned in this episode  Can you really mediate with a narcissist? Mediation and negotiation tips for divorcing an ex with narcissistic behaviours   Convincing the unconvincible in divorce negotiations for family law   Costs, Family Court and Calderbank Offers   The court conveyer belt: for family law, divorce, property settlement and children matters    Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you.   Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.

Are You a Victim of One-Sided Marital Contributions? Did you find yourself doing all the work in your household, from taking care of the kids to being the primary breadwinner and paying all the bills? Have you shouldered the household burdens while your ex-partner seemingly did nothing? Have you ever felt manipulated or coercively controlled into doing it all? What happens then when you want to separate? How can you present this in court and protect yourself from false assumptions?     As the modern landscape of marital/de facto roles changes, sometimes it can be one person who makes both all the financial contributions and the non financial. This episode deals with what to consider if this is happening to you.   We delve into the world of gold diggers in divorce, equipping you with the knowledge to protect your financial interests and regain control of your life. Discover helpful legal insights and strategies you need.Learn about strategies to use to ensure your true contributions are recognized and how to safeguard your assets when dealing with a financially uncooperative ex.    Get ready to address child support, manage high-conflict relationships, and handle manipulative and avoidant ex-partners. Join us in this comprehensive exploration of gold diggers in divorce, empowering you with expert guidance to secure your future.   Please remember that this podcast offers general education for Australia and is not a substitute for legal advice. Always seek independent legal counsel, as each situation is unique.   Gold Diggers in Divorce: Strategies to protect your assets from a non contributing ex. Don’t miss out on hearing the answers to the following questions What happens when someone in a marriage refuses to work? What can you do if your ex is sitting at home and not contributing while you work hard? How do you protect your financial interests in a divorce when you've been the primary earner? What if your spouse demands spousal support after contributing very little? How can you deal with an ex-partner who's financially manipulative? What are the key factors considered in property settlements during divorce? How do you establish your contributions to the marriage when your ex is claiming otherwise? What is the court's approach to spousal support when one partner has contributed less? Can selling investment properties be a solution to financial disputes during divorce? What about child support when one partner isn't contributing to childcare? How do you approach child support when one partner is not contributing to childcare? What if your ex suddenly wants 50/50 custody when they weren't involved before? How do you counteract a manipulative ex's claim of increased involvement with the children? What do you say to those who are being used by their ex-partners and portrayed as the bad guy? How can you address the situation when your ex is manipulative and controlling? What should you do if you are dealing with an avoidant partner who refuses to leave? How can you deal with a high-conflict ex-partner who turns any conversation into a fight? What are some strategies for dealing with an amicable ex-partner in property settlements? How can you prove your contributions and handle spousal maintenance claims? How can you plan for a smoother divorce and financial security? Useful Resources: Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist  Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you.   Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.

Struggling with custody arrangements with unique work situations like FIFO (flyin fly out), military, or night roster work? We've got you covered with valuable insights and practical tips that can help you reclaim stability and sanity in your family life. Gain control of your custody challenges with essential legal education and strategies. Learn about some of the key factors to consider when crafting custody arrangements, such as your child's developmental needs and best interests. Learn how to handle different personality types, including manipulative, controlling, high-conflict, and avoidant ex-partners, and create parenting plans that address various scenarios and work schedules. Unlock the power of open communication, and seek legal advice when necessary, while considering the characteristics to look for in a lawyer specialised in these unique custody situations. Balance their career aspirations with your new life plans, ensuring the children’s needs are met. With the right approach, even in complex work situations, you can find stability and prioritise your child's well-being.  Whether you're currently facing custody challenges or know someone who is, this episode provides invaluable insights that can make a significant difference in navigating this complex journey.  Please remember that this podcast offers general education and is not a substitute for legal advice. Always seek independent legal counsel, as each situation is unique.   ​​Parenting Plan Solutions for Military Defence Force, FIFO, and Night Roster Challenges   Don't miss out on the answers to these essential questions: How do you create a parenting plan or consent orders for coparenting when one parent is on a roster or works in a job with irregular hours? Is it fair to allow a parent who works in a job with irregular hours to have the children whenever they are available? How do you handle situations where one parent refuses to share their work roster or schedule? What happens when a parent working in FIFO or military deployment wants 50/50 custody with the children after separation? How can the contributions of a stay-at-home parent be recognized in a divorce, especially if the other parent was the primary income earner? What if the rostered parent decides to change their work situation or reduce their income to spend more time with the children? How does the court determine which parent is the primary caregiver when one parent has irregular work hours? What role do family reports and child experts play in assessing the needs of the children during and after divorce? How can you create a stable parenting plan that accommodates the best interests of the children in situations involving rostered or irregular work hours? How do family report writers and court child experts play a role in helping children meet their developmental needs in custody arrangements? What's the importance of considering children's developmental stages in custody arrangements? How can parents create a custody arrangement that allows children to spend time with both parents according to their needs and developmental stages? How can parents avoid making custody arrangements solely about extra parenting time or rewards? How should parents deal with situations where children seem to prefer one parent at certain developmental stages? What are some common challenges faced by parents with FIFO (Fly-In-Fly-Out) work arrangements in custody matters? How can parents address issues like last-minute requests for child visits and roster changes in custody arrangements? Can you explain more about creating a detailed parenting plan to address different scenarios in custody arrangements? What advice would you give to parents who have an avoidant ex-partner when trying to establish a custody arrangement? How can parents effectively communicate and work together to create stable custody arrangements, especially if one party tends to be manipulative or controlling? Are there any specific qualities or skills to look for when seeking a lawyer to help with military or FIFO custody arrangements? Can you provide more details on what to bring when consulting with a lawyer regarding custody arrangements? How can parents balance the career aspirations of one parent in military or FIFO work with the personal and career goals of the other parent in custody arrangements? Can you offer some advice for parents who might feel overwhelmed by the complexity of custody arrangements, particularly in military or FIFO situations? What steps can parents take to assert their own needs and lives while also considering their children's best interests in custody arrangements? Useful Resources: Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist  Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course   Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you. Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.

Feeling lost and overwhelmed in the divorce or de facto separation process? In this episode, we've got you covered with nine invaluable tips that you can put into action today. Gain the clarity and breathing space you need to confront your divorce head-on with essential family law legal tips and crucial mental health strategies. Learn how to set achievable goals, decode intimidating legal letters, select the perfect lawyer, and prioritise your mental well-being. Discover the power of taking control of your situation, making well-informed choices, and finding moments of self-care amid the chaos.  Whether you're facing a divorce or know someone who is, this episode is a must-listen for insights that can make a significant difference during this life-changing journey. Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.   Legal and Emotional Wellness in Divorce: 9 Expert Tips to Guide You Don't miss out on the answers to these questions: How to stop feeling overwhelmed during divorce? Why is reading legal letters so stressful in divorce? What are red herrings in divorce paperwork and negotiations? Ways to recognize and avoid red herrings during divorce. Managing financial stress and legal matters during a divorce. Finding the right lawyer for your divorce – Does personality matter? Is an aggressive lawyer worth the cost in a divorce? Importance of self-care in reducing stress during a divorce. Proactive steps for better mental health during divorce. Why are health check-ups crucial during a divorce? How to set achievable goals during a divorce? What strategies can help make reading legal letters less intimidating? Why is choosing the right lawyer essential for a smooth divorce process? How to create a divorce plan A and plan B for better decision-making? What does it mean to get your 'head out of the sand' during divorce? Why is finding a lawyer who shares your ethics important? How can one maintain composure and a level head during a divorce battle? Why prioritise mental health when going through a divorce? Importance of weekly self-care routines during divorce. Tune in now to transform your daunting divorce journey into a manageable one! Episodes mentioned: "Do I really need to respond to that?! When co-parenting communication becomes tricky during divorce proceedings."   Useful Resources: Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist  Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course   Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you.   Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.

The last thing anyone really wants in their divorce is the thought of going to court. The cost, the worry and the work involved is enough to put anyone off. So in this episode we are going to guide you through the ways you can stay out of court for your propery settlement, or childrens arrangements and custody issues. Explore possible ways you can get your negotiations and agreements sorted without taking a step into a court room or leaving it all up to a judge.  If you are feeling overwhelmed by even thinking about starting the process this is a good start for you. If you are headed to court and want to stop it, this episode is also for you. If you just want to know what your options are before you take that next step this episode is for you.  It's time to take control of your new future. It's time to educate, empower and equip yourself so you are in the driving seat of your divorce process.  How to avoid going to family court: property, children's matters during your divorce Questions you wont want to miss out on What are the options for avoiding court when it comes to property settlement?What are the two primary methods for property settlement without going to court?How do financial agreements work for property settlement?What is the significance of consent orders in property settlement?What is arbitration and its role in property matters?How can parents avoid going to court for parenting arrangements?What is a parenting plan, and how does it differ from consent orders?Can informal parenting agreements work effectively without legal documentation?How can you avoid going to court when dealing with the divorce process?What's the difference between a divorce application and other family law matters?When is it advisable to lock in a parenting plan or consent orders?Are there cases where financial motivations impact parenting arrangements?How do you enforce parenting arrangements when outlined in a consent order?What is an overview of the divorce process for de facto couples?What's the difference between a parenting plan and consent orders in terms of enforceability?How do you draft consent orders that the court recognizes?What is the role of mediation in avoiding court for parenting arrangements?Can you avoid going to court for divorce if you don't have children?What is the significance of the 12-month separation requirement for divorce in Australia?How long does it typically take to get your official divorce documents after the court hearing?Can you avoid going to court if you have a parenting plan and are happy with the arrangements?Why might someone want to shorten the time it takes for their divorce to become final?What are the legal grounds for divorce in Australia?Is there official paperwork for de facto couples who want to separate?   Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist  Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course   If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732   Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don’t miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you’ve found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you.  Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.

Learn about the new updates to the course based on the changes happening in the FCFCOA Family Court of Australia. We dive deep into a game-changing resource for anyone facing the challenges of divorce. We introduce you to the "DIY Divorce Blueprint," a comprehensive course designed to empower, educate, and equip you with the legal know-how and tools needed to navigate your divorce journey confidently. Discover the course's unique features, real success stories, and the benefits of taking control of your divorce process. From creating property orders to settling parenting agreements and attending mediation, this course provides a roadmap to a better life post-divorce. Join us as we explore the course modules, insights from current members, and the incredible value it offers. Don't miss the opportunity to take control of your divorce journey with the "DIY Divorce Blueprint." Enrol now and empower yourself to navigate divorce confidently while saving money and your sanity. BONUS EPISODE: NEW UPDATES IN THE FAMILY COURT FOR THE DIVORCE PROCESS AND NEW UPDATES IN OUR DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist  Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732   Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don’t miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you’ve found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you.  Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.

Are you currently navigating a challenging divorce situation, dealing with an ex-partner who seems like a special case? Worried it might be game over before you’ve even had a chance to get what is fair? Well in this episode we will walk you through 9 scenarios that are commonly worried about during divorce.   Asset Concealment and Non-Disclosure: What to do when your ex is hiding assets. High-Conflict Exes: Strategies for managing highly contentious situations. Claims of Total Ownership: How to handle an ex who insists they're entitled to everything. Short De Facto Relationships: Navigating divorces in shorter-term relationships. Complex Trusts and Business Entities: Deciphering the complexities when assets are tangled in trusts and businesses. Honey Traps and Coercive Control: Escaping manipulative, controlling situations. Narcissistic Exes: Strategies for dealing with classic narcissistic behaviour in divorce proceedings. Ex’s that you are worried will outsmart you in the end Wealthy and Powerful Exes: Understanding your rights when your ex holds the financial power. Listen to this episode to alleviate some of that worry as you get educated on the power of the family court and the power within yourself.  Uncover the secrets, tips, and strategies for each of these scenarios. We promise you'll leave feeling a lot better about your situation. Discover what steps to take next. Hit that play button and empower yourself to thrive amidst the challenges of divorce. Please note this is general education only, this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.    You Don’t Want to Miss Out On What do you do if your ex's family has money, and you can't afford a lawyer? What are dollar-for-dollar orders in the context of legal fees? How can you deal with a situation where your ex is financially controlling you? What happens if your ex has put all assets into trusts and legal entities? Is a short de facto relationship entitled to a property settlement? What should you do if your ex insists that you're not entitled to anything? How do you handle a high-conflict or narcissistic ex in legal proceedings? What are some common reasons people give for avoiding divorce proceedings? What happens when one party wants to move on with their life, but the other party is dragging their feet? How can you handle situations where one party is trying to delay or stall the divorce process? Is it a good idea to use delay tactics in divorce proceedings? How can you protect yourself from financial harm when going through a divorce? What can you do if you're concerned about your ex-spouse selling or transferring assets during the divorce? How do you navigate divorce when one party is emotionally volatile and prone to arguments? What should you do if your ex-spouse is refusing to cooperate with the divorce process? Are there consequences for arguing during divorce proceedings? How can you ensure that your divorce proceedings have an adjudicator and move forward efficiently? What if your ex-spouse is hiding assets, being sneaky, or telling lies during the divorce? Can you find out if someone is hiding assets without them disclosing it? How do you deal with someone who is sneaky and manipulative during divorce proceedings? What if they won't cooperate or disclose financial information? How can you address the issue if your ex is a narcissist? Is it a bad idea to get lawyers involved if you're afraid of negative consequences? What if one party claims that you're not entitled to anything or that it was only a short de facto relationship?  Balancing the Unbalanced: Navigating Divorce When the Scales Seem Tilted Podcast Mentioned in this Episode Financial Fairness During Divorce: A How to Guide for Spousal Maintenance & Child Support   DIVORCE ON A BUDGET: How to negotiate, mediate and go to court on a shoestring   DIY Divorce Disclosure and Discovery, for property settlement & child support   The Narcissist Playbook in Divorce   Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist  Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course   If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732   Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don’t miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. 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We're pulling back the curtain on the financial costs of divorce or de facto separation, helping you understand the complexities that often baffle many. Whilst it might be a topic no one wants to hear about, it could very well be the one topic you’d wish you were across when you get your legal bill at the end of your divorce proceedings.   Join us as we demystify the fearsome realm of legal fees. We will address your common fears associated with hiring a lawyer, offering insights into trust accounts and the importance of transparency. Ever heard of drafting charges, reading fees, or the staggering costs of court proceedings? We break that all down for you also.   By the end of this episode, you'll be equipped with 6 simple hacks that will help you keep your legal costs down. Arm yourself with knowledge, making confident decisions as you navigate this pivotal moment in your life.   Please note this is general education only, this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.  Divorce Budgeting 101: Understanding Legal Fees & Six Simple Saving Strategies You Don’t Want to Miss Out On What factors contribute to the varying costs associated with legal services in family law? How can you proactively inquire about the fees during your initial consultation with a lawyer? Can you elaborate on the concept of trust accounts and their significance in legal transactions? In what ways can you effectively dispute legal fees that seem unreasonable or unexpected? What are the practical steps for you to manage legal costs, especially concerning documentation and administrative expenses? When faced with unexpected charges, how can you address discrepancies in your legal bills? What strategies can you employ to question specific charges and gain a clear understanding of your legal fees? How can you dispute fees if you believe you are being overcharged, ensuring a fair resolution? Amidst legal complexities, how can you navigate the intricacies of legal fees, especially when scale costs are involved? How can you assess the value of legal services based on hourly rates and scale costs, ensuring transparency and fairness? How can you leverage online resources to compare scale costs and the charges quoted by your legal representatives? In transitioning to a paperless office, what benefits can you expect in terms of reduced costs, especially related to photocopying expenses? What strategies can you implement to minimise photocopying costs, ensuring efficient use of resources during legal proceedings?   Resource Mentioned in this episode  FCFCOA Website Costs Information   Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist  Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course   If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732   Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don’t miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you’ve found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you.  Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.

Have you got concerns about starting or current property settlement in your divorce? Are you concerned about the cost of consulting a lawyer? Worried that pursuing property settlement might disrupt your peace? Anxious about your ex having a savvy legal team? Concerned about how others might perceive you during this process?   We discuss all these apprehensions and more, offering practical tips and guidance to help you navigate property settlement with confidence. Our goal is to ensure you get a fair outcome without the stress of these worries looming over you or you just giving up on it altogether.   Tune in to gain valuable knowledge and empower yourself during this challenging time. Don't let these concerns hold you back from achieving a just property settlement. Listen now to find the solutions you need to address your worries and secure what's rightfully yours.   In this episode, we delve into the top seven worries people commonly have about divorce property settlement. Join us as we explore these concerns and provide valuable insights on how to address them.   Please note this is general education only, this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.  Your Top 7 Property Settlement Concerns During Divorce: How to Address Them You Don’t Want to Miss Out On "What do you say to people who claim that their ex is too smart or has hired an expensive lawyer, making the fight for a fair settlement too difficult?" "How do you address concerns that the ex-spouse is manipulative, sneaky, or dishonest, making the divorce process not worth the effort?" "What advice do you have for individuals who think it's not worth pursuing consent orders for property when they believe they have very little to divide?" "How can you assure someone who wants to prioritize peace for the sake of the children that pursuing a property settlement won't lead to unnecessary conflict?" "What should someone consider when they're afraid of the potential cost of divorce and would rather spend that money elsewhere?" "How do you respond to individuals who have seen others go through amicable divorces and feel embarrassed or ashamed to confront a more challenging situation?" "Can you provide guidance on handling a divorce situation when you feel overwhelmed by the comparisons with other people's experiences?" "What steps can someone take to protect their legal rights in a divorce, especially when dealing with a manipulative or controlling ex-spouse?" "How important is privacy when going through a divorce, and how can one balance personal privacy with seeking support and advice?" "Are there specific strategies for maintaining effective communication with an ex-spouse during a divorce, even if it's expected to be high-conflict?" "What considerations should someone keep in mind when deciding whether or not to pursue a divorce?" "How can individuals ensure they make informed decisions and navigate the divorce process effectively?" "Can you explain the importance of seeking professional guidance and support when going through a divorce?" "What are the potential risks of comparing one's divorce situation to others, and how can one avoid feeling pressured to conform to someone else's experience?" What do you say to someone who feels overwhelmed and ashamed because they believe their ex is smarter or more cunning in the divorce process?" "How can you encourage individuals to seek legal help when they fear that their ex-spouse will make the divorce difficult?" "What advice would you give to someone who thinks their case isn't worth pursuing because they believe there are minimal assets to divide?" "How important is it to maintain one's privacy during a divorce, especially when dealing with a manipulative or controlling ex-spouse?" "Can you explain why it's essential for people not to be embarrassed or ashamed if their divorce experience isn't as amicable as others?" "What steps can someone take to regain a sense of control and power when they've been guilted or shamed into giving up in their divorce?" "How can individuals ensure they make informed decisions and navigate the divorce process effectively, even when they're feeling overwhelmed?" "What's the significance of taking action in a divorce rather than procrastinating and avoiding it?" "Can you elaborate on why comparing one's divorce situation to others can be misleading and unhelpful?" "What are some strategies for maintaining peace and effective communication with an ex-spouse during a potentially high-conflict divorce?" "How do you address the concern that it's not worth pursuing a divorce due to a busy life, especially when dealing with kids and work responsibilities?" Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist  Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732   Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don’t miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. 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Are you on the verge of selecting a family lawyer for your divorce, property settlement, or child custody concerns? Worried about the looming spectre of a colossal legal bill? Tune in as we unravel the answers to the most frequently asked questions about the art of choosing and collaborating with a divorce attorney or family lawyer. Discover under-the-radar, yet incredibly effective, strategies for engaging with a lawyer that can potentially save you thousands in legal fees. Unlock the secrets of what to inquire when seeking the perfect lawyer and delve into the myriad of approaches you can adopt with your legal counsel, tailored precisely to suit your unique needs and circumstances.  Empower yourself with a deep understanding of how lawyers operate and what to anticipate. Step into that legal office or pick up that phone with unwavering confidence. This episode might just be the game-changer you need to make informed decisions early on, securing a brighter outcome for your divorce, your finances, and your legal expenses.   Please note this is general education only, this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.  Three ways to choose and use your family lawyer (that you probably haven’t heard of.)  You Don’t Want to Miss Out On How do you choose a lawyer for your divorce or separation? What are the different ways to use a lawyer in divorce proceedings? What is the "first class approach" to using a lawyer in divorce, and what are its drawbacks? How can being educated about family law and the legal process help you in your divorce journey? What are some common misconceptions people have about lawyers and divorce? How can taking a step-in, step-out approach with your lawyer benefit you in divorce proceedings? What role does mediation play in divorce, and why is it important to be aware of this process? How can understanding the stages and steps of divorce proceedings reduce stress and uncertainty? What are the potential pitfalls of not sharing important information with your lawyer during divorce? How can being proactive and informed about your divorce process lead to a smoother and less stressful experience? How can you use a lawyer in a divorce case without spending a fortune? What are the different ways to involve a lawyer in your divorce process? How can having a lawyer for a "legal look" benefit you in a divorce case? What is the significance of understanding the legal process in a divorce case? Why is it important to have a lawyer review any documents before you sign them in a divorce? How can understanding the Family Law Act help you navigate your divorce more effectively? What is Section 102 NA of the Family Law Act, and how can it help victims of domestic violence in divorce cases? Why is it crucial to be smart about using lawyers in divorce, especially in terms of costs   Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist  Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Episodes Mentioned in this episode- Link to listen below Can’t afford a lawyer? Seven top tips to follow for children’s or property settlement in the family law court Choosing a Family Lawyer & the Red Flags not to ignore If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732   Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don’t miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you’ve found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you.  Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.

Are you facing the challenges of dividing up the property in your divorce and are stuck in a deadlock? Join us as we answer key questions and provide practical tips for handling deadlocks in divorce property settlements. Whether you're handling your divorce independently or with legal representation, these insights will empower you to drive the process forward effectively.   We delve into the pressing topic of handling deadlocks in divorce negotiations, offering valuable guidance to help you navigate these complex situations. Discover practical strategies for dealing with non disclosure,  asset valuation and stonewalling tactics sometimes used by other parties. We explore options for breaking through these deadlocks, ensuring a fair distribution of assets.   Learn how to manage your emotions during this process and understand the emotional value of items in play. We'll also share techniques for fostering an equitable mindset in asset division. Gain a better understanding of how to approach divorce negotiations with a business-like attitude.   While we can't replace personalised legal advice (which you should always get from your own legal representative before taking any actions in your case,) we aim to equip you with the knowledge and confidence to tackle asset division challenges head-on.   Please note this is general education only, this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.    Deadlocks in Divorce: Strategies for Non-Disclosure, Valuation Fights, and Stonewalling   You Don’t Want to Miss Out On What are some practical tips for dealing with deadlock situations in divorce? How can you stop the 'What ifs?' from running in your head? What can you do if your ex doesn’t do disclosure? What happens if your ex won’t let you see their bank statements etc. How do you turn your anxiety about asset division into a 'So what?' attitude? What if you've given a deadline for asset valuation, and it passes without a response? How can you ensure you follow through with your stated actions if the other party doesn't cooperate? What strategies can you employ to deal with deadlocks in divorce negotiations? What can you do if you're handling the divorce process on your own without legal representation? How can you make sure you're effectively driving the divorce process forward? Is it essential to treat divorce negotiations like a business transaction? How can we value items like cars, jewellery, and other assets? Valuation can be expensive. What if someone can't afford it? How do you un-deadlock a situation when you can't even afford to pay for valuation? How do you determine if you're being difficult about a certain item due to past emotions? What is the emotional value of an item, and how does that play into the decision-making process? How can you ensure equitable distribution of assets? What strategies can be used to divide assets fairly? Are there alternative methods for estimating the value of items? How can online resources like Facebook Marketplace or Redbook help in estimating values? How important is attitude adjustment in resolving valuation disputes? What steps can individuals take to adjust their attitude towards asset division?   Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist  Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course   Episodes Mentioned in this episode- Link to listen below Delay Tactics in Divorce: How to counter then & How it can affect your Property, Children's & Domestic Violence Matters    DIY Divorce Disclosure and Discovery, for property settlement & child support   Untangling the Value: How to Navigate Valuations in Divorce & De Facto Separation property Settlements    How to divorce a statue: 7 tips to divorce an avoidant ex even if they stonewall you or disappear.    If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732   Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don’t miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you’ve found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you.  Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.

Are you navigating post-divorce parenting arrangements, or the complexities of family court custody issues in Australia? Learn from this insightful episode from a seasoned family law accredited specialist expert with over 35 years in family law. Where you’ll explore the critical topic: "Best Interests of the Children." Whilst we don't claim to be child psychologists, we will shed light on what this concept means in the eyes of the Family Court, providing valuable educational guidance for a concerned parent just like you.  Discover how the family court evaluates factors like relationships with both parents, the views of children (considering age and maturity), financial and emotional contributions post-separation, and practical changes in routines.  Are you navigating post-divorce parenting arrangements, or the complexities of family court custody issues?  In this episode we will address "What will happen to my children? How does the court decide? What's truly best for them?" While we can't replace personalised legal advice, we offer clarity and educational confidence in understanding your children's potential paths during divorce or separation in the eyes of the Family Court in Australia. Please note this is general education only, this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.    Decoding the Family Court's Perspective on 'Best Interests of the Children' in Custody Cases. You Don’t Want to Miss Out On   1. What are the primary considerations when determining the best interests of the children in family court?   2. How does the court balance the child's right to have a meaningful relationship with both parents and the need to protect them from harm?   3. What role do family report writers play in child custody matters, and how do their recommendations influence court decisions?   4. At what age can a child's views be considered by the court, and how does the court assess their maturity in expressing those views?   5. What impact does a history of domestic violence have on child custody decisions?   6. How does the court evaluate each parent's involvement in decision-making and spending time with the child?   7. What happens if one parent hasn't paid child support since separation, and how does this affect custody decisions?   8. How does the court consider the practical effects and potential disruptions on children when making custody arrangements?   9. How does a child's individual needs and vulnerabilities, such as neurodiversity or disabilities, influence custody decisions?   10. What are some common mistakes parents make when initially separating and how does it affect their custody cases?   11. Is nesting (where parents alternate living in the family home) a practical solution for maintaining stability during separation, and what are the potential challenges?   12. What happens if you need to leave the family home during separation, and how does it affect your rights concerning property?    13. What factors determine the practical difficulty of a child spending time with both parents, especially in cases of fly-in, fly-out work arrangements?   14. How do distance and work commitments of parents affect custody arrangements?   15. Should parents worry that if one ex makes significantly more money than the other, the children might be ordered to live with them?    16. What are the primary considerations that the Family Court takes into account when determining the best interests of the children in custody arrangements?   17. What does it mean for a parent to provide for the children's intellectual, emotional, and social needs? 18. How does a parent's mental health or diagnosed mental health issues factor into custody decisions?   19. What role does the maturity, sex, lifestyle, and background of each parent play in custody arrangements?   20. How does the court ensure that a child's cultural heritage is supported after a separation?   21. How does the court assess a parent's attitude towards their responsibilities of parenthood?   22. How does family violence, both between parents and towards children, impact custody decisions?   23. What role do domestic violence orders play in custody cases?   24. How does the court aim to avoid ongoing litigation and its impact on children? How does the court consider children's ages and development stages in custody decisions?   25. What is meant by "equal shared parental responsibility," and how does it relate to custody arrangements?   26. What changes are expected in family law regarding the presumption of equal shared parental responsibility?   Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist  Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Episodes Mentioned in this episode- Link to listen below FAMILY REPORTS https://link.chtbl.com/divorcepodcastseven   If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732   Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don’t miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. 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Discover how every word and action can impact your case, and learn strategic approaches to navigate manipulation from an ex-partner. From securing sentimental items to making legally sound decisions, we equip you with some essential tools to navigate your divorce journey effectively.   Delve into the often overlooked but vitally important legal dimensions of divorce or de facto separation. Whether you're amidst the process or foresee it on the horizon, our expert insights are a compass through the emotional and legal storm.   Tune in now to gain expert guidance from a family law specialist on safeguarding your interests and ensuring a smoother ride through the family court  to your new future. Your journey through divorce doesn't have to be tumultuous – let's navigate it together. Please note this is general education only, this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.    You Don’t Want to Miss Out On What legal considerations should people keep in mind while going through a divorce? How can being reactive during a divorce be detrimental, and what's a better approach? What should you do with valuable and sentimental items during a divorce? Why should promises made during the emotional turmoil of a breakup be approached cautiously? How can social media and electronic communication impact a divorce case legally? What strategies can help prevent actions being used against you in a court of law? How does the court view possessions and belongings in a divorce, and why does it matter? Why is it important to create a clear plan for children and pets during a divorce? What happens if you make promises during a divorce that aren't legally binding? How can you safeguard your belongings and pets during a divorce? What could be the consequences of reacting strongly during a breakup? Why is it important to consider the legal aspect of divorce, even amid emotional turmoil? What are some practical steps to ensure a smoother transition during a divorce? What does "start as you mean to go on" mean in the context of handling child custody arrangements? How does the court view the history of parenting responsibilities after separation when making custody decisions? Why is it crucial to establish a strong presence in your children's lives early on after separation? What is the significance of maintaining the status quo in a legal context, especially regarding children? How has the law changed in terms of shared parental responsibility and equal time arrangements? What steps can you take to ensure that you're financially prepared for the challenges of divorce and separation? Why is it important not to rely on your ex-spouse for financial support during the divorce process? How can you safeguard your financial interests while navigating property settlement negotiations? What precautions should you take when communicating with an avoidant ex-partner during divorce? How can written communication be misinterpreted or manipulated in high-conflict divorce cases? Why is it essential to be careful with your words and actions when dealing with a manipulative and controlling ex-spouse during divorce? How can seemingly innocuous actions, like accepting help with childcare, be used against you in a high-conflict divorce situation? What role do school/ day care pick-up registries and other school records play in divorce court cases? Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist  Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Episodes Mentioned in this episode- Link to listen below Taking control of your finances & red flags of financial abuse with guest Pedro Marin   The Narcissist Playbook in Divorce   Consent Orders: it’s not rocket science. Explore the what, when, why, how of property and parenting consent orders after divorce so you know what’s what.   If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don’t miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you’ve found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you.  Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.

Are you facing the challenges of co-parenting after a divorce or separation? The idea of parenting coordinators might sound appealing, promising to ease communication and decision-making between you and your ex. But, before you sign up, it's essential to understand the potential pitfalls.   Join us in this podcast episode as we delve into the concept of parenting coordinators and explore the concerns surrounding them. From issues of control and decision-making to the impact on children's upbringing, we dissect this increasingly discussed topic. We'll also offer alternative strategies for resolving co-parenting conflicts and emphasise the importance of active parental involvement.   Whether you're navigating the complexities of co-parenting or just curious about the potential downsides of parenting coordinators, this episode offers valuable insights and advice. Remember, knowledge is your best tool for making informed decisions. Please note this is general education only, this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.  You Don’t Want to Miss Out On What is a parenting coordinator? What are the risks of a parenting coordinator with a narcissistic/ manipulative and controlling ex Are parenting coordinators a good idea for co-parenting? Can parenting coordinators make decisions about child-raising? Can parenting coordinators help in high-conflict situations? How do parenting coordinators impact the financial aspect? Are there risks of bias with parenting coordinators? How does the involvement of parenting coordinators affect children? Why is the concept of parenting coordinators seen as a potential issue? What concerns are raised about parenting coordinators? What caution is advised regarding parenting coordinators? How is the idea of parenting coordinators viewed? What analogy is used to explain the perspective on parenting coordinators? What is considered crucial in the business of co parenting after a separation? What potential effects could parenting coordinators have on children? How is the idea of parents learning to manage co-parenting challenges perceived? How is co-parenting compared to a business partnership? What concerns are expressed about the lack of regulation in the field of parenting coordinators? What alternative options are proposed for resolving co-parenting conflicts? What could be the consequences if parents rely solely on parenting coordinators? What advice is given to parents considering parenting coordinators? What is the purpose of the pop parenting courses? What should people going through post separation abuse watch out for when parenting coordinators are recommended? Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist  Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course   If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don’t miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you’ve found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you.  Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.

Are you grappling with how lump sums, like inheritances, personal injury payouts, and redundancy payments, are treated during your divorce, de facto separation property settlement in Australia?  Have you received an inheritance from a beloved family member and don’t know if it might have to be shared with your ex-spouse? Not to worry, because in this episode, we're exploring the many different possibilities and outcomes when it comes to lump sums of money in property settlements. We're here to address your concerns, draw insights from real-life cases, and provide general guidance even if you're not going to family court. It's a lot to unravel, we know, but understanding how the courts perceive these situations and what rulings have been made in the pasts can help you effectively navigate these issues during your mediation or settlement discussions with your ex-spouse.  Listen now to gain valuable strategies for protecting your financial interests during property settlements involving lump sums. Learn how different scenarios impact the division of assets and ensure you're making informed decisions.  So, whether you're facing an impending separation, in the midst of a divorce, or simply curious about how lump sums fit into property settlements, tune in and empower yourself with valuable knowledge. Your freedom & financial future awaits – let's tackle these challenges together!  Please note this is general education only, this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.  Who keeps the Inheritance, Injury Payouts & Redundancies in Divorce? Your General Guide to Lump Sums in Property Settlement. You Don’t Want to Miss Out On How do you deal with lump sums in property settlement? Is it really fair if you get an inheritance from a passed-on parent or family member and then half of it ends up having to go to your ex in a property settlement? What about personal injury claims? How are they treated in property settlements? What happens if someone hasn't claimed their personal injury settlement yet, but they can? How are redundancy payments handled during property settlements? Can redundancy payments and other lump sums be counted as property if they're just sitting in a bank? How does the court consider redundancy payments and other windfalls used to improve the family home? What are the strategies for protecting your financial interests in property settlements involving lump sums? How can different scenarios impact the division of assets? How can individuals ensure they are making informed decisions regarding lump sums during divorce proceedings? Are redundancy payments, long service leave, and bonuses all included in the same category, or are bonuses different? How does the court treat long service leave, especially if it's used for purposes like going on a holiday or buying a house? What about bonuses? How are they treated in property settlements? What happens if someone uses their long service leave to buy a house or goes straight into another job? How are bonuses considered, especially if they are based on performance or company performance? If an ex-spouse receives a bonus before property settlement, does that bonus become part of the property pool? How does the court handle personal injury claims or inheritances received before marriage or before entering a de facto relationship? Can you prevent certain assets, like inheritance, from being divided during property settlement through specific wording in a will? Is there a way to ensure fairness when an ex-partner is trying to avoid touching certain assets like inheritance, personal injury claims, etc.? Can the knowledge and information discussed in this session be used during mediation or negotiations with legal letters? What are some common attitudes people have towards not touching specific assets during property settlement, and how does that impact the overall outcome? Is it possible for someone to "technically not touch" an asset like inheritance, but still have it affect the property pool distribution? How can one disclose assets like potential personal injury claims or inheritances during the property settlement process? Is it possible to set up wills to prevent specific assets from being divided during property settlement? What factors contribute to a fair property settlement according to the Family Law Act? How can someone deal with the emotional side of property settlement, especially when it involves assets like inheritance or personal injury claims? Why is honesty important during property settlement negotiations? How can mediation or involving a court help in reaching a property settlement agreement when negotiations reach an impasse?   Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist  Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course Episodes Mentioned in this episode- Link to listen below Untangling your finances: your property settlement for divorce or separation explained.   Your Future Needs and how it affects your divorce and property settlement Part 3: Sorting your property settlement in divorce   Sorting your property settlement in divorce: Part 2 Non financial & financial contributions during and after marriage.   Sorting your property settlement in divorce: Financial Contributions before cohabitation and how it affects your property statement If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don’t miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you’ve found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you.  Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.

Are you getting divorced or separating but are facing the stark reality that you will have no money to live on?  Does your ex hold all the assets and cash? Are you worried about whether you can leave them at all for financial reasons alone? Or are you relying on them to pay for everything til property settlement is sorted and you are worried that this could stop at any moment because you’ve found yourself in a financially controlling situation? Don’t worry we’ve got you.  In this episode listen to a family lawyer explore and explain what spousal maintenance is and how it can help someone who is transitioning from a married or defacto couple to a new single life.  Learn about the process you might have to take to get yourself financially stable during the divorce process and after.  Find some comfort in the fact that many people follow this process and it isn’t as hard as it sounds. Look at the links below to find the forms discussed in this episode and also make sure you listen to the other two episodes mentioned about what to do if you can’t afford a lawyer and a deeper dive into how to know if you are eligible for spousal maintenance.  Please note this is general education only, this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.  You Don’t Want to Miss Out On What is spousal maintenance? Can de facto separated couples apply for spousal maintenance? When can you get spousal maintenance? Can you get spousal maintenance if you're separated under one roof? Is spousal maintenance a forever thing or just temporary? Can you have an agreement outside of the court for spousal maintenance? What does the court consider when making an agreement for spousal maintenance? How long does the spousal maintenance process usually take? How do you apply for spousal maintenance? Can you apply for spousal maintenance while still married? What happens if you get remarried or enter a new de facto relationship while receiving spousal maintenance? What are the potential consequences of not seeking legal advice? Could you provide a detailed explanation of the financial statement and initiating application? In cases where spousal maintenance is not urgent, is it still advisable to pursue mediation and negotiation? Where can one find a free mediator to assist with the spousal maintenance process? Can you outline a plan of action for addressing the financial statement and initiating application? Is there a possibility that receiving Centrelink or child support payments may affect the amount of spousal maintenance granted? How does one navigate the intimidating prospect of taking the matter to court if necessary? What is the preferred method for filing court documents, and is it possible to do so in person? In your experience, how often do spousal maintenance cases proceed to trial? Considering the financial struggles faced by both parties, how does one balance the need for support and a fair property settlement? How can individuals overcome their reluctance to address financial matters and secure a more favorable divorce outcome? For those unable to afford legal representation, where can they seek assistance for completing required documentation? What crucial steps should individuals take to manage their finances effectively during divorce proceedings, especially when facing financial hardships?   Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist  Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course   Forms mentioned in this episode Financial Statement Kit (do it yourself kit) | Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia Initiating Application Form DIY Kit FORM 1A Genuine Steps Certificate Where to file your documents Preparing an affidavit Info Sheet Service Information   Episodes Mentioned in this episode- Link to listen below Spousal Maintenance Are you Eligible? Can't Afford A Lawyer Episode   Financial Fairness During Divorce: A How to Guide for Spousal Maintenance & Child Support   If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don’t miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you’ve found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you.  Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.

Are you tackling the pressing concern of keeping your cherished home amidst divorce or defacto negotiations for property settlement?  In this episode discover eight innovative ideas that might just help you secure that house you love. From delay agreements and deferred property settlements to strategic superannuation splits, we explore creative approaches to safeguard your dream home that you or your lawyer might not have thought of.    When it comes to figuring out who gets what in the divorce there isn’t a cookie cutter approach. So in this episode we try to help those struggling with this to think outside the box.   But remember, each situation is unique, so it's essential to consult with a lawyer to assess what works best for you. So don't wait any longer, dive into this episode, and uncover the possibilities that lie ahead for your future and your home.   Please note this is general education only, this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.  Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist  Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course   Episodes Mentioned in this episode- Link to listen below I really really want to keep the house Delay Tactics in Divorce   Creative Ways to Keep your House in Divorce: out of the box thinking for your property settlement. You Don’t Want to Miss Out On What is a delay agreement when it comes to keeping the house? How can you negotiate with your ex to buy them out in the future? Are there any risks involved in delaying property settlement? What if the house's value goes up and you need to borrow more to buy out your ex? How can you safeguard yourself if you plan to delay reaching a property settlement? What are the potential risks of not putting the agreement in writing? How can you use superannuation as an asset to buy the house? Is it possible to split your super with your ex-spouse to reduce the amount needed to buy the house? How can exploring your budget help you afford the house? What options can you consider to cut expenses and manage child support payments? How can you use family members to help you keep the house? Is it possible to stay in the house until your children finish school or reach a certain age? If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don’t miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you’ve found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you.  Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.

If you are trying to get your ex to come to an agreement with property or parenting arrangements so you can move on with your life this episode is for you (if you have a lawyer or not.)    We explore seven tips to approach your divorce negotiations with an iron fist, but in a velvet glove. We talk through the strategies you can put in place today to help your property settlement or custody arrangements not drag on.    There is an art to negotiating, but an extra special art to negotiating with someone who you’ve shared a large part of your life with. Listen to the episode today and make sure you are on the right path.    Please note this is general education only, this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.    Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE Click here for our free before you leave checklist  Click here for our free mediation checklist Sign up here for our next free online webinar Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course   Episodes Mentioned in this episode- Link to listen below Cost and Calderbank Offers Separated Under One Roof   Master Your Divorce Negotiations: The Iron Fist Within the Velvet Glove You Don’t Want to Miss Out On How to get your mindset right to negotiate with someone you’ve shared your whole life with.  Is it problematic to avoid negotiations and delay facing the realities of divorce? What factors can change during divorce proceedings, such as values, job loss, and time limits? How can a friend's support and assistance in booking a lawyer make a significant difference? What should be the approach when dealing with high-conflict negotiations during divorce? Why is it important to selectively respond to irrelevant and petty issues during negotiations? How can giving in strategically and knowing your desired outcome benefit negotiations? What is the significance of the individual's role in negotiations, rather than solely relying on the lawyer? Why is it important to make sure your lawyer doesn’t inflame the situation. How can the concept of an "iron fist in a velvet glove" be applied to divorce negotiations? What strategies can help expedite the divorce negotiation process? What is the importance of generating options during divorce negotiations? Why is it important to be cautious about having an overly aggressive lawyer during divorce negotiations? What should be the primary focus of lawyers during divorce proceedings? Why is sending a reasonable letter from a lawyer considered more effective than a sarcastic one? If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don’t miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you’ve found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you.  Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.