We Talk Back

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Hosted by two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talk back, TamBam and AJ are helping women maneuver through the Sea of Men! "We Talk Back” podcast is here to guide femininity to its ultimate greatness. We Talk Back podcast is giving their listeners the raw and unfiltered comedic gift of repartee. With thought-provoking conversations about sex, relationships, and money with a dash of danger and glitter. TamBam & AJ will also help listeners seeking non-professional guidance, as these ladies deliver advice and their personal thoughts on topics. read less

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We Talk Back is a podcast where two hilarious friends say things other people wish they could say out loud. Hosts Ashley James "AJ" Holiday and Tamela "TamBam" Bowen talk about whatever they want, including sex, cheating, drugs, dating, and food. They want to help Black women feel comfortable expressing themselves. The vivacious hosts also generate laughter. Their wit is so quick that listeners might replay their retorts to enjoy them twice.

They invite comedians, authors, doctors, and celebrities to authentic discussions. TamBam and AJ ask men to call We Talk Back and explain why they cheat. They use voice filters so the callers can be honest. One man calls himself a "hot tamale" and his 31-year-old girlfriend his "old woman." He feels entitled to cheat while his "boring" girlfriend works as a nurse and goes to graduate school. The caller wouldn't tolerate her cheating, though.

Another man says he cheated, gave his boyfriend a disease, then tried to blame the boyfriend. A third caller theorizes that men are polyamorous and women are hypergamous. TamBam and AJ know when to hang up on callers. They make even the worst things funny on this podcast..

We Talk Back discourages unwise choices. Driving with minimal gas, bald tires, and the oil light on is something they advise against. TamBam and AJ get a good laugh out of bad choices first, though. The hosts lead "Ask a Black Friend" episodes for non-Black callers. They explain how to use white privilege for good and whether white people should attend Black celebrations. AJ and TamBam have "S.I.N.S. of the Week" discussions about awful behavior. NLE Choppa walking women like dogs and Derrick Jaxn's infidelity make that list.

The podcast reveals random sex facts. Listeners learn how female penguins engage in prostitution. One host explains the acronym she created, "S.A.F.E. sex." We Talk Back talks about real issues, like how hard it is to find the right partner. It's so funny that listeners might feel better about wherever they are in that process. New episodes premiere Thursdays.

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Hosted by two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talk back, TamBam and AJ! Helping women maneuver through the Sea of Men, We Talk Back” podcast is here to guide femineity to it’s ultimate greatness. We talk Back podcast is giving their listeners the raw and unfiltered comedic gift of repartee. With thought-provoking conversations about sex, relationships, and money with a dash of danger and glitter. TamBam & AJ will also help listeners seeking non-professional guidance, as these ladies deliver advice and their personal thoughts on topics. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Episodes

Quit Touching $hit

Quit Touching $hit

On this week's episode of 'We Talk Back', AJ Holiday and Tam discuss personal struggles with disabilities, the latest in celebrity news, including Diddy's legal troubles and Janet Jackson's comments on Kamala Harris, their perspectives on password and location sharing, the implications of trust and privacy in romantic partnerships ands much more. Lets discuss. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Or Forever Hold Your Flatulence

Or Forever Hold Your Flatulence

This week in the S.I.N.S of the week the ladies discuss the biggest sinner in today's media cycle, Sean “Diddy” Combs, his unfortunate case of sex trafficking, racketeering and more. Later in the episode, they dive into pet peeves and annoying habits in relationships and friendships. One thing about Tambam is always start off a message with a good morning/afternoon and always hold your flatulate around AJ! What are your pet peeves?Lets discuss. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We Talk Back: Daddy Issues

We Talk Back: Daddy Issues

The Black Effect presents... We Talk Back! Tambam and AJ go over their S.I.N.S of the week but not before Tambam let us know about her recent injury due to catching the bouquet at a wedding. They then delve into the topic of daddy issues, discussing signs and triggers that may indicate someone has daddy issues. Moreover, they share personal experiences and explore the impact of absent or unreliable fathers. They unpack the importance of therapy and self-reflection in addressing and overcoming daddy issues and more. Lets discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Roll The Celestial Dice

Roll The Celestial Dice

This week after the ladies discussed their weekend ventures, Tambam and AJ send their condolences to Rich Homie Quan who recently passed from an overdose. They also discuss the rapper's "other woman" sending a rest in peace to him as well as quite a few side chicks were coming out the blue. Next, they speak on the controversy surrounding Kendrick Lamar's Super Bowl performance in New Orleans next year, Beyoncé's recent snub at the Country Music Awards leading to a deeper exploration of the intersection of race and music. The episode features a special guest, Bri Alexandra, an astrologist and medium, who shares her journey into spirituality and the importance of energy healing. Tam, AJ and Bri discuss the significance of personal readings, setting boundaries in spiritual practices, the role of ancestral connections in healing and more. Lets discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0 @brialexandria777See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Married vs Outside

Married vs Outside

On this episode of WTB, Tambam and AJ discuss various topics during their S.I.N.S of the week, which included Beyonce's rumored performance at the DNC, the reported death of Craig Mack, a false rape accusation, and Judge Mathis marriage falling a part. Next, they are joined by two guests, one married and one single, who share their perspectives on relationships and the importance of family, health, and money. The hosts and guests also share their top priorities in life, which include family, health, and personal growth. They also discuss the concept of soul ties and the impact of past relationships on one's present.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of the We Talk Back podcast, AJ and Tambam discuss eating and feeling lethargic, Sexy Redd’s controversial lip gloss line, Angelina Jolie's past struggles with suicidal thoughts, Karlie Redd boundaries with her friends and her man, and a nurse who revealed a patient's HIV status to his girlfriend. They also unpack the sensitive topic of motherhood and fertility, sharing personal experiences and discussing in vitro fertilization, the idea of having children later in life, the importance of having a supportive partner, societal pressures, the benefits of becoming a parent at an older age, challenges faced by single mothers and the stigma surrounding women who choose not to have children and much more. Lets discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Parents Just Don’t Understand

Parents Just Don’t Understand

On this episode of WTB, AJ Holiday and Tambam discuss various topics for their S.I.N.S of the week including Careesha opening up about her relationships with JT and Diddy on her new season of 'Careesha Please' podcast.The also unpack Tracee Ellis embracing her beauty and body at her distinguished and the controversial incident involving a waiter confronting a customer for not leaving a tip. The ladies do a deep dive in a conversation about the youth, as they spoke to their god daughters and nieces about how they view life, love and responsibilities at their age and more. Lets discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On this episode of WTB, Tambam and AJ go over their S.I.N.S of the week, they speak on starting over. They share personal experiences of why they decided to move to different cities in their lifetime, some reasons were to be with a guy, and some were to run away from a guy. Moreover, Tambam shares her decision to start over and move to Los Angeles, but she definitely had some concerns about finding a husband and starting a family there. She also explores the idea of reinventing herself and focusing on what truly matters to her. Are you willing to move to reinvent yourself? Lets discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Salty Like Lot’s Wife

Salty Like Lot’s Wife

In this episode, AJ and Tambam get into some S.I.N.S including the Olympics, Tory Lanez music recordings from prison. Later in the episode, they also touch on the theme of moving forward in relationships and not letting past experiences affect new ones. AJ shares her struggles with trust and the fear of being betrayed, while Tam emphasizes the importance of finding peace and joy in the present moment. The conversation explores various themes related to relationships and personal growth. They also emphasize the importance of validating each other's feelings and learning what a healthy relationship looks like. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

40 Acres and Some Tools feat. Gene Boykin

40 Acres and Some Tools feat. Gene Boykin

On this week's episode, AJ and Tam Bam get into some S.I.N.S of the week, including a prison officer's scandal, and the definition of blackness. They are then joined by Gene Boykin, a real estate investor, who shares his journey and strategies for achieving financial freedom. During the conversation, they discuss various real estate strategies, including 'Subject 2' deals, red tag homes, and seller carrybacks. They also touch on the importance of asset protection and the use of trusts. Gene also shares a “Simp story” about the time he was played by an ex-girlfriend who repossessed his car. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0 @thegogetterfamily_See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week on WTB, the ladies discuss their recent vacations, as Tambam has returned from celebrating her birthday in Malta and AJ spoke on her recovery from her vacation. During their S.I.N.S of the week they touch on topics such as the recent assassination attempt on Donald Trump and Dwyane Wade's nail care line. Next, they unpack the idea of having a digital detox from social media. They explore the addictive nature of social media, the impact it has on mental health and productivity and provide tips for doing a social media detox. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Survival Mode Activated

Survival Mode Activated

Tambam and AJ discuss first speak on their past weekend and get into their S.I.N.S of the week which included Kendrick Lamar’s petty shade in the “Not Like Us” music video. Later in the episode they discuss the boost of inflation and personal strategies for combating it. They emphasize the importance of saving money, diversifying income, paying down high-interest debt, the potential benefits of investing in cryptocurrencies and more. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week the ladies Tambam and AJ had a lot to discuss when it came to their S.I.N.S of the week, which included the BET Awards most viral moments, Rick Ross getting attacked in Canada, dating app burnout, and Jada Chavez's comments on dating men who earn less than her. Later in the episode, they get into the discussion of nepotism and its impact on the black community, highlighting how it can be both beneficial and detrimental. Next, they shift into a “Dumb B** Story” from a listener dealing with cheating in her marriage that had a different turn of event at the end. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0 Go Fund Me *itsbunnybaby See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

I'm Not Your Cis, But We Are Family

I'm Not Your Cis, But We Are Family

This week on WTB TamBam and AJ discuss various topics including their thoughts on the movie Bad Boys 4, the use of Lysol as a feminine hygiene product in the early 1900s, and the challenges of relationships. They also have a conversation with Mykel, a trans man, about gender identity and his personal experiences. Mykel shares his journey of opening up as trans and coming out to his family. He also discusses the challenges and support systems he encountered during his transition. Let's discuss in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share. Follow We Talk Back: @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0 @myke_elSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

OMG It's A Fire

OMG It's A Fire

This week the ladies AJ and Tambam are joined by comedian and podcaster Flame Monroe where they discuss various topics including comedy, politics, and identity. Flame shares insights on being a self-aware comedian and the role of comedians in the political arena. They also touch on the challenges of navigating relationships with transgender individuals and the importance of open-mindedness. Also, Flame does not shy away from a “dumb bitch” story. Lets discuss in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share. Follow We Talk Back: @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0 @monroeflameSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week the ladies Tambam and AJ get into their S.I.N.S of the week and discuss the advancements of AI and the if it can be a danger to society after an AI sex tape of Megan Thee Stallion emerged on socials. Also, they unpack actor Michael Rainy was inappropiately groped on a livestream. Later in the episode, they were joined by their friend Teresa, and explored the impact of colorism on self-esteem and relationships, and the role of society in perpetuating these divisions. Teresa also shares her “Dumb Bitch” story with a man who cheated on her and got another woman pregnant multiple times. Remember Speak Now and Never Hold Your Peace Follow @WeTalkBackPodcast @AJholiday2.0 @officialtambamSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week the ladies Tambam and AJ start the conversation off by letting their listeners know how to properly groom your pum pum which later turns into a conversation about the concept of 'pity pussy' and its implications after their S.I.N.S of the week. They dive into the conversation of pity sex from both male and female perspectives, duty sex, intimacy in relationships, the impact of sex on communication, connection and the importance of setting boundaries in sexual relationships. Remember Speak Now and Never Hold Your Peace Follow @WeTalkBackPodcast @AJholiday2.0 @officialtambamSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Now we all know how hard it is to date in this era as we have online dating, gender dynamics etc. but have you ever had an issue dating someone that may be hiding their sexuality? In this episode of We Talk Back, Tambam and AJ discuss an article on ways you may be able to tell if someone is hiding their true sexuality. Also during the episode, they share how their impact of past relationships have effected future interactions, the differences in trust and vulnerability between men and women, the emotional and practical considerations of navigating such relationships and more. Lets discuss in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share. Follow We Talk Back: @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Tambam and AJ had only one S.I.N of the week which is the recent controversy surrounding Diddy and his abusive behavior towards his ex, Cassie. The hosts express their disappointment in Diddy's actions and call for accountability and change within the black community. They discuss the complicity of those around Diddy and the need for more communal support and integrity. Next, for their main discussion, they share their thoughts on posting a significant other on social media. Is sharing..caring or private life a happy life? Lets discuss in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share. Follow We Talk Back: @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Psychology of Pimping feat. T. Reezy

The Psychology of Pimping feat. T. Reezy

Summary In this episode of “We Talk Back”, Tambam and AJ get into their S.I.N.S of the week which includes the recent diss record trend, Mary J Blige new boot line and Anita Baker's tardiness and more. Next the sit down with Bay Area's own T. Reezy to unpack the psychology of pimping, the role of women in managing money, the relationship between religion and pimping, the motivations behind sex work, the stigma associated with it and more. Lets discuss in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share. Follow We Talk Back: @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0 @trtharulaSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.