a.k.a. Fun Hurty Stuff This week Si and Chris talk about corporal punishment, or maybe it's canes and paddles. But there's definitely nothing corporate about it (listen to the episode to find out what on earth I'm talking about here). So what's so fun about pain? In tea, Chris has a gripe about the German football team's new kit now, and Si shouts out to Mercury and Jory's Tiktok-a-thon for Trans Health (link here). And for joysticks, Chris completes the Phoenix Wright Trilogy, while Si plays Super Smash Bros and Mario Kart locally. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tbnjpodcast/message

This week Chris and Si are talking about some ... Movies. Videos. Ok we're definitely not turning into a movie podcast. But we are talking about the consumption of porn and maybe some unrealistic aspects of it. What do we think could be the best way out? Some disagreements? Maybe! For tea, Si covers the England football shirt "flag" controversy, while Chris reports on scientists removing HIV from cells. And in joysticks, Chris and Si get themselves addicted to playing Balatro, the rogue-like poker game (if you haven't already seen it / heard it). –Edited by TBnJ ChrisMusic: Quarter Conundrum by Dio.A.KCheck out our website on tbnjpodcast.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tbnjpodcast/message

This week Chris has got his voice back so we're able to continue with the animals of the scene where we look at if The Advocates definitions of the types of people you might encounter on the LGBTQ+ scene are still accurate For the 5 minute Marvel this week we're discussing Echo the latest Marvel TV series on Disney Plus For Tea this week Si gets really frustrated with Tinder Chris talks about encountering theme tunes in the wild and both are excited for the new Wicked trailer. Meanwhile in joysticks this week Chris is playing Baldur’s Gate 3 and Si is playing Palworld - Edited by TBnJ Si Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio.A.K Checkout our website at TBnJPodcast.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tbnjpodcast/message

No kink this week, Chris and Si catch up on the Marvel stuff they've missed talking about in the last half a year and also on the Doctor Who specials. It's geekery all around! For tea, Si wants you to have a look at his side-project "For Whom It May Concern". And for joysticks, Chris is on his road to Baldur's Gate and Si plays Mario Kart: Double Dash on an old console. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tbnjpodcast/message

This week Chris and Si take a look at the "Origin of Bears" (as claimed by The Advocate) and some of the other so-called "animals" found within the LGBT scene. Are they really a thing? How outdated are they? There's still no Five Minute Marvel this week because at time of recording Marvel titles were still struck works, we plan to have a catch up session at the start of the new year! For tea, Si is disappointed his holiday plans were thwarted by a volcano, while Chris had an unusual experience at the Sexual Health Clinic. For Joysticks, Chris serves coffee and listen to stories in the Coffee Talk series, Si plays several mobile games and he wants to let you know. – Edited by TBnJ Chris Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio.A.K Check out our website on tbnjpodcast.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tbnjpodcast/message

a.k.a. What About No Nut November? This week Si and Chris are chatting about the past month, which they spent locked up in chastity. The highs and lows, the benefits and disadvantages, some things they have observed, and what they discovered about themselves. For tea, Chris celebrates Cyril Leroy, the founder and captain of the first gay French rugby team, who was honoured by World Rugby and Land Rover during the recent Rugby World Cup, while Si managed to have found another group of (mostly) non-kinky people who also celebrated some sort of "Locktober". For joysticks, Chris pursues justice in the Phoenix Wright: Ace Attorney Trilogy, while Si gets frustrated in the pachinko machine of Peglin. -Edited by TBNJ SiMusic: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – ⁠⁠soundcloud.com/matt-doak⁠⁠Find us on socials @TBnJPodcastLinks at ⁠⁠TBnJPodcast.com/Links --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tbnjpodcast/message

This week Si and Chris are joined by Craig for The TB&J List: Chastity Special! Where we generate two random* pop culture characters and decide between them who is going to be locked for Locktober and who gets to keep the key! *(random-ish) For tea this week, Chris wonders why the British media has suddenly picked up on the term "situationship", and Si joins the chorus of complains when subs are told "Locktober is coming". In joysticks, Chris hasn't quite get round to exploring space in Starfield, and Si goes carting without the power-ups in Crash Team Racing Nitro-Fueled. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tbnjpodcast/message

This week Si and Chris sit down and talk about protocols within kink, why they find them important, what they get out of them, some examples of how they can be used both in private and in subtle ways day to day for a kinky couple. In Tea this week Si talks about FOMO around the women's world cup whilst Chris discusses the Somerset Gimp. In Joysticks, Chris dives down the Giant Blue Hole as Dave the Diver, while Si messes about in the world of The Legend of Zelda: Tears of the Kingdom. -- Edited by TBnJ Chris Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – ⁠⁠soundcloud.com/matt-doak⁠⁠ Find us on socials @TBnJPodcast Links at ⁠⁠TBnJPodcast.com/Links --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tbnjpodcast/message

a.k.a. Britain's Number 9 Favourite Fetish This week Si and Chris talk about piss, golden showers, watersports, whatever you want to call it (or urolagnia if you want to be really medical). We talk about the degredation and objectivication aspects of it, the health risks, the gear and set up and any prep work! And then we go to the story books and talk about our own embarrasing experiences. In tea, Chris celebrates Quinn on becoming the first transgender non-binary player to play in a football World Cup, and Si complains about the current messy state of social media sites and apps. In joysticks, Chris builds an empire with trains in Transport Fever 2, while Si can't wake up to the alarms in Pokémon Sleep. --Edited by TBnJ ChrisMusic: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – ⁠soundcloud.com/matt-doak⁠Find us on socials @TBnJPodcastLinks at ⁠TBnJPodcast.com/Links --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tbnjpodcast/message

a.k.a. The History of Pride, Part II This week Chris and Si do another whistle stop tour in honour of LGBTQ+ Pride Month (and we came late). We look at the umbrella acronym itself; various forms of self-expression including clothing, norms and codes, as well as more explicit forms like badges and patches; before finally discussing the history of the AIDS Quilt. For tea, Chris gets confounded by a stupid saying and Si gets angry over a protest hijack. And for joysticks, Chris attempts to save his spaceship crew in Jumplight Odyssey. -- Edited by TBnJ Chris Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – ⁠soundcloud.com/matt-doak⁠ Find us on socials @TBnJPodcast Links at ⁠TBnJPodcast.com/Links --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tbnjpodcast/message

Si sits down with Craig from Kinky Boys Podcast share stories and anecdotes from their own experiences being Autistic, ADHD and more to explore how it is possible to take advantage of the curb cut effect to make Kink and BDSM scenes inclusive of people with Neurodiversity and Disabilities. Before that however they kick of the show discussion the Apple Vision Pro and work out exactly who it is aimed at (hint: a particular group of kinksters) Then in Joysticks there is a more in depth look at Legend of Zelda: Tears of the Kingdom from Si whilst Craig discusses Cereza and The Lost Demon. This episode also marks the official announcement that the podcast website is now live at: http://tbnjpodcast.com Special thanks to Craig from Kinkyboys Podcast for filling in for Chris this week! --- Edited by TBnJ SiMusic: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – soundcloud.com/matt-doakFind us on socials @TBnJPodcastLinks at TBnJPodcast.com/Links --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tbnjpodcast/message

This week we sit down with the 2 man team behind the new "Switched" app that the kink community has been talking about to see who they are, what their plans are and what they're bringing to the table that's different to other offerings out there. We discuss everything from how they got started, their first couple of weeks live, community questions around why certain choices got included when others didn't and an exclusive look at what's coming in the future versions of the app. Tea this week couldn't really be anything but Eurovision Campness whilst over in joysticks Chris is playing Pan'orama and Si is exploring Minecraft and Legend of Zelda: Tears of the Kingdom –Edited by TBnJ ChrisMusic: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – soundcloud.com/matt-doakFind us on socials @TBnJPodcastLinks at lnk.at/TBnJPodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tbnjpodcast/message

a.k.a. APP-solutely Fabulous This week we have Louise to talk with us about dating apps. The three of us tend to use these apps looking for different things (surprisingly) and we talk about our experiences with these apps. Some of out histories with different platforms over the years and some golden rules for using them. In tea, Chris brings up some dubious reports on Coke and Pepsi's effect on testicles and Si takes issue with the UK's handling of inviting citizens pre-written pledge of allegiance to the King. And for joysticks, Chris once again returns to his islanders in Animal Crossing; New Horizons while Si builds his perfect village in Dorfromantik after having several issues building his new PC. –Edited by TBnJ SiMusic: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – soundcloud.com/matt-doakFind us on socials @TBnJPodcastLinks at lnk.at/tbnjpodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tbnjpodcast/message

a.k.a. Can't Take My Size Off You This week Chris and Si are talking about cocks. When do they not talk about cocks, I hear you ask. Nah it’s a bit more specific than that. Penis size fetishes are all over the scene. Small, big, long, short, thick, thin, you name it, someone has made a fetish of it. This week we have a look at what people get off on about dick sizes. For tea, Chris gets Si confused about religion, and Si is disappointed with Manchester Pride. And in joysticks, Chris hits up the beat in Hi-Fi Rush while Si rolls back the years to Pokemon TCG. –Edited by TBnJ SiMusic: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – soundcloud.com/matt-doakFind us on socials @TBnJPodcastLinks at lnk.at/tbnjpodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tbnjpodcast/message

a.k.a. Banjo the Bluie? Si finally moved house and we're back! and man do we have a lot to catch up on. This week friend of the show Mutt Banjo talks to us about Transformation as a kink concept and how that is played out both in the real world and online. Before that we spill Tea on hypocrisy around the Homophobic Chanting by Football Fans and share our opinions on the dragons dung that was the Dungeons and Dragons OGL v2 debacle. Finally for Joysticks we get stuck in to Fleet Battle - Sea Battle by smuttlewerk interactive, Red Nexus Games' Peglin and Marvel's Midnight Suns. --Edited by TBnJ ChrisMusic: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – soundcloud.com/matt-doak Find us on socials @TBnJPodcast Links at lnk.at/tbnjpodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tbnjpodcast/message

This week we're joining Santa in checking our Nighty List, otherwise known as the TBnJ List and seeing which Pop Culture Character/Kink combinations we prefer. In Tea we talk the how England crashed out of the FIFA World Cup in Qatar and how some teams tried to make their objections to Censorship of Human Rights and LGBT issues during the tournament known as well as the end of the Pokémon Franchise as we know it with the retirement of Ash Ketchum and Pikachu. Meanwhile for Joysticks Chris takes a dive into Marvel Snap and Both Si and Chris look at Marvel's Midnight Suns. Edited by TBnJ Si Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – soundcloud.com/matt-doak Find us on socials @TBnJPodcast Links at lnk.at/tbnjpodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tbnjpodcast/message

a.k.a. Tag, You're It Since we had been off air for a while, Si and Chris decided it was time to play a game of tiggy so we can catch up with our listeners about what has been happening. So it was mostly just tea this week. Chris starts off with a sportsball corner piece about Pride flags at the MLS Cup final. Then we talk about UK politics, the Queen's passing, the sauna, the Mario movie, Google Stadia, Twitter, Doctor Who and a whole bunch of stuff about the MCU.  (This was recorded pre-Black Panther: Wakanda Forever, so there won't be any spoilers.) – Edited by TBnJ Chris Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – soundcloud.com/matt-doak Find us on socials @TBnJPodcast Links at lnk.at/tbnjpodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tbnjpodcast/message

a.k.a. Shiny Shiny Latex  We're starting Season 3 of Tea Bags & Joystixxx with a bang, no sorry, squeak! The topic today is latex, the most popular (no official data) kind of rubber play. Si and Chris talk about their experiences with rubber / latex, the various outfits we and other people have come up with and how kinksters should be treated while wearing gear.  Tea this week, we discuss how the Australian football team, the Socceroos, have addressed the Men's Football World Cup in Qatar (Chris refuses to use its official name) in a video statement, and also how the UK's foreign secretary have suggested how LGBTQ+ football fans should behave.  In Joysticks, Chris finishes the Two Point Campus campaign, and draws random lines in the free parody puzzle game The Looker; while Si battles out in card game Marvel Snap, and strategises in the crossover worlds in Mario + Rabbids Sparks of Hope.  Once again, apologies we took a break longer than expected.   – Edited by TBnJ Chris Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – soundcloud.com/matt-doak Find us on socials @TBnJPodcast Links at lnk.at/tbnjpodcast Send in a voice message – anchor.fm/tbnjpodcast/message --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tbnjpodcast/message

a.k.a. What Else We Do in the Shadows It's our last show of the season as we take our (delayed) summer break of about a month, but that doesn't mean we don't have plenty to talk about before we go... This week we're talking all about the bits of Sex that don't usually get discussed. We touch on a little bit of everything from cuddling to douching, condom fit to losing your erection, and finding the prostate through to finding, or even not finding that final orgasm.  In tea this week Chris brings up Call of Duty's F1 inspired map whilst Si talks about how Pokémon Card artists know exactly what they're doing.  Meanwhile for Joysticks this week Chris talks a look at Two Point Campus and Si dives back into Borderlands 3's Mayhem Mode.  – Edited by TBnJ Si Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – soundcloud.com/matt-doak Find us on socials @TBnJPodcast Links at lnk.at/tbnjpodcast Send in a voice message – anchor.fm/tbnjpodcast/message --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tbnjpodcast/message

a.k.a. Spider: It's Coming Home This week Si and Chris chat with Mr Superhero Europe 2022 Gareth (Instagram)! We talk about his challenges (plural) to the title, his plans of being a title holder, his very special Spider suit and the growth of the superhero fetish. We also discuss incorporating superhero cosplay into a kink scene, and the fun and challenges of roleplaying a superhero (whether it's an established character or a character you made up yourself).  (Was going to type 'a made-up superhero', which is ridiculous, because obviously all superheroes are made up.) For tea this week, we talk about how Chris hurt his own back in a really stupid way, and in another sportsball corner, we join in to celebrate football's homecoming, with England's victory at the European Championship. And in joysticks, Chris returns to the SFW(-ish) version of Rimworld once again with plenty of mods, while Si sets up his D&D campaign with TaleSpire. – Edited by TBnJ Si Music: Quarter Conundrum by Dio A.K. – soundcloud.com/matt-doak Find us on socials @TBnJPodcast Links at lnk.at/tbnjpodcast Send in a voice message – anchor.fm/tbnjpodcast/message --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tbnjpodcast/message